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So Daniel and I have been talking about getting married a lot lately. We aren't even engaged just we know we want to be together and we have avery strong relationship. i never thought I'dbe thinking about marriage at 21, so weird. I was the girl in high school everyone thought was a lesbian because I didn't date anyone. I never saw the point of 'dating' in high school because it's not like you'd actually stay together.. Plus I always felt like you should really 'know' yourself as much as you could before getting in a relationship. So almost 4 years later who would of thought Daniel and me would still be together, honestly not me.. But thank God we are. Needless to say I've been thinking about wedding stuff nonstop, I feel slightly crazy..
First off the rings..
I love that.. It's 1/2 ct t.w. the center diamond is 3/4. For some reason I don't think a wedding band would look right with it and I do hair, I use chemicals I don't want to wear something the expensive working so I'd kind of just wont a simple band to wear working and whatnot.
Like..
Not all that simple but whatever.
Daniels..
Personally I love that for him, butttt he wants yellow gold.. which I think would be ugly as hell with me having white, I want him to have diamonds too and he's iffy on it because he doesn't want to mess it up (which take it off if you're working outside or whatever).
I do like that though, and it has both. But I'd feel bad mine being so much more then his, I know the mans isn't as much as the womans but still..
We've already decided we're getting married at Pretty place in Ceder Mountain, North Carolina. We do not want a big wedding at all. I'm thinking around 20-30 people, honestly 30 sounds like to much for me. For me I want my wedding to be very personal, I just couldn't imagine a wedding with 100-200 guest, I mean I get stressed easily I don't want to worry about impressing everyone or not knowing someones name, I like simple.
Pretty Place
I love that picture.
We haven't decided if we want a Fall or Spring wedding, I think we're leaning towards fall but I lovee the Spring colors and have always loved Spring, why would you want dying plants surrounding you when you could have blooming flowers full of life, again the beauty of the Fall colors and moving on of your life the end to one stage and the beginning of another.. Cheesy and over thought, I know.
In Fall
Sunset in Spring..
I kind of want to be be around sunset, then again I don't know. If it's in Fall sunset Spring I think midday? I'm not sure, not that much thought as been put into this.. I always wanted to get married in a church but also I feel like my heart belongs outside, mixture of both looking out on God's creation. I'm pretty sure they have church there sunday mornings could you imagine how beautiful?
Hair-Jewerly-Dress
I really wanted something with lace real vintage looking but I can't find anything I like. If it's in Fall I want a off white cream, Spring probably crisp white.
w/
That's my exact necklace, and you can change out the pendant, I'd do the cross, yess I know it's gotty and I love it. I want simple hair.
I love this, simple yet beatiful. I think it would look better with bigger boobs though..
or
not those but just as a idea..
Not sure, I don't think I could pull it off, but I love it.
Pretty much mix and match for the hair and dress, I love the first dress though.
Tux/Suit
I hate black, hateee it.
I hate pink on guys, but I actually think that looks really good.
That to not sure though, kinda doesn't look dressy enough.
I want the biggest expense to go to pictures, with us having a small wedding plus it being out of state I want to have a bunch of pictures to show when I get home.. Here's some I love, just for the awwws.
Those are from a studio up in Brevard, where our house is in NC.
If it's in Fall I'd want it October 24th which is also my moms birthday, so it would be our something borrowed, and that's peak for the fall colors.
At the end of the cermony I'd want Sade - By Your Side played then everyone come down give hugs/whatever and enjoy the view and just have a moment where everyone enjoys it with us.
I don't want bridesmaids or groomsmen, MAYBE 1 each, but that's a maybe. As crazy as it seems I'd rather our dog be in it then deal with 2 other people, and them dealing with cost of a hotel the drive, whatever.
I've offically lost my mind.