Юные пираты

[_nevidimka]

Вчера у дочки в школе был утренник. Попели, рассказали стишки, потанцевали, пришел Дед Мороз. Мальчишки-пираты (по сценарию пираты) в кол-ве 3 штук сидят и в едином патриотическом порыве, подняв вверх руки, кричат "Россия! Другая

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Re: Living Child Free

[_nevidimka]

Hello.

My account is somehow flawed, and has been for years )= I joind LJ many years ago, when blogs were named not nick.livejournal.com, but users.livejournal.com/nick, didn't accept new style in time and because of that I couldn't open a Live ID in the years it seemed an excellent innovation that made joining some sites easier, as now do Facebook and some others; for the same reason, I think, I can't recieve private mail, what I tend to forget all the time (= Thank you very much for answering through my blog.

The theory was first proposed by a Russian socionics researcher, more a mathematician than a psychologist, so if one can overcome his/her prejudgement of socionics and people who waste time on it and tries to read his study, it all seems a bonkers set of mathematical nonsence. Luckily I had a psychology teacher who once worked with the man and had a talent for understanding and simplifying good ideas. Now this theory helps me explain a lot of things not only to my elder daughter, but to many of her friends.

I'm a "she" (= Actually I got married at 18, had first child at 20,been a housewife for years and now am torn apart between the wish to self-actualize through a job and the wish to spend more time with children and guide their growth process while they still want me to (oh how time flies!) - but I don't regret a minute of it all; and yet it's only my way of life and I don't mind other people living as they like.

Re: Living Child Free

[peacetraveler22]

As a stay at home mom/housewife, you sacrificed a lot for the happiness and well being of your family. Much respect to you! As I said in my post, I believe women like you are the true champions of the world. Now that your children are grown, you should focus on yourself a bit and pursue your dreams. :)

Re: Living Child Free

[_nevidimka]

Problem is they aren't. Younger one is almost 5, and it'd be best if I'd take him to different hobby groups since he's reached the age to be able to join a vast variety of them. Ofc if I earned enough we could hire a nanny - but to miss my child's years of growth... I'm this donkey stuck between two stacks of hay.
But it'll all sort itself out eventually, as it always did. Where's a will, there's a way.