Death of my family...
So I just got email from my dad. It starts off by saying that we might have snow and ic soon. The second paragraph tells me that my aunt's cancer is now so rampant that she is no longer talking to her husband..which is the worst thing since hell. Se's in so much pain, and it's apparently spread to her brian in just the past week. My dad informed me that IF she makes it to Christmas, this will be the "last happy occasion" that the Maxwell's will be together.
Merry Christmas!
THEN, he proceeds to tell me all about his "medical diagnosis" and says DO NOT TELL YOUR MOTHER. He proceeds to tell me of a recent diagnosis he's been given and how Friday and Monday he's having a total of 12 hous of testing. It aint pretty kids. He then goes on a rant about me knowing HIS wishes for a "living will" and how I will have power of attorney FIRST, THEN my mom. He's had his will revised and power of attorney, etc. and WILL HAVE THE PAPERS FINALIZED NEXT WEEK. next friggin week. It's a big tangent about how he's gonna die soon.
Happy new Year.
Truthfully, my mom and I had dealt with his failing health a LONG, LONG time ago. We also delt recently withthe fact that we know that he literally MIGHT "die of a broken heart" when my aunt dies, especially after losing their mom a year ago. He's convinced he's gonna die. That's just as bad as actually dying, I think.
THIS SUCKS. I'm not ready for this. Seriously....I'm NOT ready for ANY of this.
Merry Christmas!
THEN, he proceeds to tell me all about his "medical diagnosis" and says DO NOT TELL YOUR MOTHER. He proceeds to tell me of a recent diagnosis he's been given and how Friday and Monday he's having a total of 12 hous of testing. It aint pretty kids. He then goes on a rant about me knowing HIS wishes for a "living will" and how I will have power of attorney FIRST, THEN my mom. He's had his will revised and power of attorney, etc. and WILL HAVE THE PAPERS FINALIZED NEXT WEEK. next friggin week. It's a big tangent about how he's gonna die soon.
Happy new Year.
Truthfully, my mom and I had dealt with his failing health a LONG, LONG time ago. We also delt recently withthe fact that we know that he literally MIGHT "die of a broken heart" when my aunt dies, especially after losing their mom a year ago. He's convinced he's gonna die. That's just as bad as actually dying, I think.
THIS SUCKS. I'm not ready for this. Seriously....I'm NOT ready for ANY of this.