The Silver Lining
Things are better. Not perfect, but improving. Thanks immensely for all of the kind words.
I think writing everything down was the first step toward improving things. I'm very much a thinker/ponderer and so doing that is good for me.
Friday night we had a disagreement. It was caused by hanging out with another couple that is fighting a lot. Suddenly everyone is having problems as if it were contagious! The husband in this relationship has cheated, and his wife knows. Each one tells us their side of the story, and we end up stuck in the middle. I just got sick of hearing about couples cheating and being unhappy. It made me wonder why the hell anyone gets married!
So after our disagreement he took a shower, and I was going ignore him and go read, when the idea struck me to get into the shower too. We kissed like teenagers until the water ran cold, and then...well the rest would turn this into a pornographic entry lol!
We pretty much spent the whole weekend together. We saw a movie and went out to eat and slept in, and it was great. It's not that we don't care about our friends, but I think we needed to do that for us. We needed to reconnect.
I think writing everything down was the first step toward improving things. I'm very much a thinker/ponderer and so doing that is good for me.
Friday night we had a disagreement. It was caused by hanging out with another couple that is fighting a lot. Suddenly everyone is having problems as if it were contagious! The husband in this relationship has cheated, and his wife knows. Each one tells us their side of the story, and we end up stuck in the middle. I just got sick of hearing about couples cheating and being unhappy. It made me wonder why the hell anyone gets married!
So after our disagreement he took a shower, and I was going ignore him and go read, when the idea struck me to get into the shower too. We kissed like teenagers until the water ran cold, and then...well the rest would turn this into a pornographic entry lol!
We pretty much spent the whole weekend together. We saw a movie and went out to eat and slept in, and it was great. It's not that we don't care about our friends, but I think we needed to do that for us. We needed to reconnect.