My dearest Ale, nobody can tell you how to grieve and there is no set time for the emptiness and sadness to disappear. Just take your time and as said in a previous comment, don't be afraid to let it out. I with I could be physically there for you, but alas I can't do anything more than offer you an open ear. Write me any time, I'll listen <3
Takashi, Takashi, Takashi. (I'm shaking my head while saying this) Seriously, that guy is sending some signals. Being part of that journey you had with him almost since day one, I still find it pretty amazing how familiar you two have become with each other. I can very well imagine that he was a welcome distraction and I am happy to read that he was able to make you forget the pain at least for a little while. I can understand how scary the prospect of the future must be but I find nothing wrong with "using" him so to speak (even if he doesn't realize it) as means to cheer yourself up, if it helps you with your grieve and pain. Whatever you chose Ale, be sure that you have my full support and that I am crossing my fingers for you <3
Takashi, Takashi, Takashi. (I'm shaking my head while saying this) Seriously, that guy is sending some signals. Being part of that journey you had with him almost since day one, I still find it pretty amazing how familiar you two have become with each other. I can very well imagine that he was a welcome distraction and I am happy to read that he was able to make you forget the pain at least for a little while. I can understand how scary the prospect of the future must be but I find nothing wrong with "using" him so to speak (even if he doesn't realize it) as means to cheer yourself up, if it helps you with your grieve and pain. Whatever you chose Ale, be sure that you have my full support and that I am crossing my fingers for you <3
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