"...why wouldn't I say something like that (for example)? Why don't I ever make a scene, or make people feel like they're disrupting my essence of being? Why aren't I rude or offensive (if I am dudes, tell me) or hard to be around?"
Taking a wild guess, because you know what it's like to be on the receiving end of a comment like that, as was made evident in your post. It clearly doesn't make you feel very good. Plainly put, because you're a caring and wonderful individual, contrary to your mother.
Your mother sounds pretty whimful. If memory serves, you've said before that she's never satisfied, something is always wrong. No matter what you say or do, she'll always find something to whine and moan about, be it concerning you or otherwise. So long as you're around her, you'll always be subjected to it, that you can be assured of. She's subjected you to it for the past nineteen years of your life, why would she stop now or anytime soon? 'Understanding' her isn't likely to make the situation anymore bareable.
She's taught you plenty but she doesn't lead by example. Rather, she provides the example of what she's teaching you not to be, I suppose? The smoker who preaches that smoking is bad while they light another, if you will.
Taking a wild guess, because you know what it's like to be on the receiving end of a comment like that, as was made evident in your post. It clearly doesn't make you feel very good. Plainly put, because you're a caring and wonderful individual, contrary to your mother.
Your mother sounds pretty whimful. If memory serves, you've said before that she's never satisfied, something is always wrong. No matter what you say or do, she'll always find something to whine and moan about, be it concerning you or otherwise. So long as you're around her, you'll always be subjected to it, that you can be assured of. She's subjected you to it for the past nineteen years of your life, why would she stop now or anytime soon? 'Understanding' her isn't likely to make the situation anymore bareable.
She's taught you plenty but she doesn't lead by example. Rather, she provides the example of what she's teaching you not to be, I suppose? The smoker who preaches that smoking is bad while they light another, if you will.
I'll shut up now~
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it's a relief to know that someone's actually taking a moment to try and understand me for a change *lol*.
Thanks for not playing Devils Advocate <3
-Ren
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