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[_miawallace_]

Is it wrong of me to be upset with him? I mean I just want to scream at him that his stubborness has just cost us $500. Because I know how he can be. I know he was trying to prove a point to our apartment complex. I know that's what he was doing! But I've stood beside him and argue the point for/with him because that's what a good woman does.

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[anarielraet]

Um yea, you should state your opinion! It's okay to even tell him he's wrong before he costs you guys 500 dollars. I mean yea you should stand by your man, (same way he should stand by you) but if his emations take control and you are staying logical, then it's up to you to help him not make a mistake. Part of the reason people need partners is for stuff like that. LOL I hope my ramble here made some sense :)

[_murrry_]

It's hard to tell him things like that because he doesn't react well to any kind of critizism... but $500... yeah, you're right to be upset! I understand you not wanting to make things worse by upsetting him, but that's too expensive of a mistake to just let him have his way without expressing how much it's frustrating you.

On the other hand, what's done is done and pointing out his mistakes now won't get your money back. You are def right on this one, but what will telling him about it accomplish?

I'm leaving this one up to you girl! If you must say something, I'm sure you'll find a way to tell him that he will understand and the conversation won't end up in an arguement. Good luck and I hope things get better soon! :)