My Issue
Since a lot, well one person in particular, writes journal entrys about his issues or thoughts, what he believes, his opinions. I thought it might be nice if i wrote about something that bothers me. People Change. We all know it's true. Regardless of whether they are female or male, people change. And then there are the things we say and never mean. While some of my examples might be personal and you might not get them others aren't so personal and are more universal.
Whether people change from day to day, week to week, month to month, or year to year, people change. I can give examples for all of them. It hurts to lose a best friend, to stop talking to someone, or to fight with someone you've never fought with before. Old friends become enemies, Best friends become aquaintances, Enemies become good friends. It's an ongoing cycle. People lie, people cheat, people do things so out of character sometimes.
I guess i really dont know where i am going with this. My friend and i came up with a list. Of the things we say but never mean or don't follow through with (these arent all things i've said)
i will when i get my liscence still ride my bike everywhere
i will never smoke weed
i will never have sex until after i graduated high school
i won't have sex until i get married
i wont drink until i'm 21
we will be friends forever
i will never lose touch with my old friends
i will never date anyone again
i will never date him/her again
i'm not going to party in high school
i'll never date someone younger than me
I'll never do that again
I'll never date someone who's had sex before
I'll never break up with you
I love you
3046 (that's more personal)
but regardless you get the point. I know the list is even longer and you can add to it. But the truth is everyone changes. ten years from now we won't be the same people that we are today, tomorrow we might not even be the same person. Other people change us, make us stronger, make us weaker. I had a friend so independent, didn't need anyone else and now they are completely dependent upon someone else. i had a best friend that i'd do anything for that i hardly ever talk to anymore.
i guess this is all useless ramblings. it just bothers me how people change, i guess for every person that changes and you lose them you gain another.
i just dont know
Whether people change from day to day, week to week, month to month, or year to year, people change. I can give examples for all of them. It hurts to lose a best friend, to stop talking to someone, or to fight with someone you've never fought with before. Old friends become enemies, Best friends become aquaintances, Enemies become good friends. It's an ongoing cycle. People lie, people cheat, people do things so out of character sometimes.
I guess i really dont know where i am going with this. My friend and i came up with a list. Of the things we say but never mean or don't follow through with (these arent all things i've said)
i will when i get my liscence still ride my bike everywhere
i will never smoke weed
i will never have sex until after i graduated high school
i won't have sex until i get married
i wont drink until i'm 21
we will be friends forever
i will never lose touch with my old friends
i will never date anyone again
i will never date him/her again
i'm not going to party in high school
i'll never date someone younger than me
I'll never do that again
I'll never date someone who's had sex before
I'll never break up with you
I love you
3046 (that's more personal)
but regardless you get the point. I know the list is even longer and you can add to it. But the truth is everyone changes. ten years from now we won't be the same people that we are today, tomorrow we might not even be the same person. Other people change us, make us stronger, make us weaker. I had a friend so independent, didn't need anyone else and now they are completely dependent upon someone else. i had a best friend that i'd do anything for that i hardly ever talk to anymore.
i guess this is all useless ramblings. it just bothers me how people change, i guess for every person that changes and you lose them you gain another.
i just dont know