I've alluded to this issue in previous posts, and you've all been very helpful. Here's the current situation and I'd appreciate everyone's comments and suggestions
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If I were in your shoes I would absolutely not hang out with her again. Period. My husband is pretty good at taking my feelings into consideration on things, and if someone/something makes me feel uncomfortable then he has no problem going along with my wishes. It doesn't matter if this girl wants to screw your husband, what matters is that YOU feel uncomfortable and obviously your feelings should be more important to him than hers.
I agree, and that's what my fiance said: we'll no longer have a problem because we wont hang out with her again. Except it feels more like "damn, why do you have such security issues? She doesn't mean anything by it but fine, we wont hang out with them anymore to avoid arguing." Since he is more accepting and doesn't mind, he admitted that if it wasn't because of my discomfort he would still hang out with them.
Sometimes my husband agrees to things like this and I get the same feeling you're getting from your husband. I've learned that I can't always expect him to like or agree with my feelings, so long as he respects them. I put the kibosh on one of his friendships because I felt the girl was disrespectful to our relationship based on her words and actions, and while he wasn't thrilled about it, he agreed that if someone acted that way toward me, he would feel uncomfortable too.
Oh, and I think some of it is that my husband doesn't realize when someone's hitting on him. He always thinks they're being nice or something. He's a bit naive.
Double ditto. He likes to think the best and assumes it's harmless until she's digging in his pants I guess. Her behavior thus far has been enough for me.
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