ps. i would just like to make it clear that my body is not an object of sex... more a right. a right to be myself... read this if you wish... it's the reason why i out these pics up tonight... x
I look around me and notice every little detail. I notice the crooked nose of the woman sitting on the bus, and I wonder… why does the word crooked have to be a negative? I think her nose is beautiful. I notice the boy at the supermarket; his lips are so thin, not plump and full (you know the way they are “supposed” to be). And they suit him perfectly.
The other day it was brought to my attention by some big shot that apparently my breast size makes me look fat. Brought to me - as a negative.
My body has never been an issue to me. The way it’s curved and shaped, the way the fat sits around the bone structure, the way my tummy rolls when I sit down, the size my breast are, the bump in the middle of my upturned nose, the dimples on my thighs… none of these have ever bothered me. Why should they? Is my body what has created the music I perform today? Are my breasts the sounds that come out of my mouth? Is that fat on my belly what makes me love?
Never in my musical career have I been put down for the way I look. Sure I have been told that I look scary, intimidating, and sometimes my tattoos scare people… but I have never been judged on my weight or breast size. This cave man mentality has made me livid! It has made me realize what a backwards society we still live in. And that I will definitely not be silent about it.
People seem to be more pre-occupied with criticizing people’s looks / image more than they are with loving the human race. What is perfect??? Nothing… there will never be a definition of perfect, because perfect does not exist. We all have different tastes and that is what makes us individuals.
The things I have experienced in life, the pain, the violence, the hate, the love, the happiness is what makes me the person I am today. It is what makes me share myself with my fans, through my songs and words. And I know that those fans can relate to me, not for the way I look, but for the things I say, think and feel.
I am where I am today, because of who I am, and the amount of hard work I have put into getting there. Not because of the way I look. And each one of you is where you are today because of the same reason. Never feel like you can’t achieve something because your looks are not ‘perfect’. Never let the beast put you down because they themselves are not comfortable with the way they look. Love every single part of your body, and appreciate its uniqueness and individuality. Always leave your heart open and don’t be afraid of sticking up for yourself. The way you are and the way you choose to present yourself is your choice, not anyone else’s.
you are seriously the most beautiful girl i have ever seen. you have a beautiful mind and soul and i can tell from what you have just written. you rule at life. ♥
I look around me and notice every little detail. I notice the crooked nose of the woman sitting on the bus, and I wonder… why does the word crooked have to be a negative? I think her nose is beautiful. I notice the boy at the supermarket; his lips are so thin, not plump and full (you know the way they are “supposed” to be). And they suit him perfectly.
The other day it was brought to my attention by some big shot that apparently my breast size makes me look fat. Brought to me - as a negative.
My body has never been an issue to me. The way it’s curved and shaped, the way the fat sits around the bone structure, the way my tummy rolls when I sit down, the size my breast are, the bump in the middle of my upturned nose, the dimples on my thighs… none of these have ever bothered me. Why should they? Is my body what has created the music I perform today? Are my breasts the sounds that come out of my mouth? Is that fat on my belly what makes me love?
Never in my musical career have I been put down for the way I look. Sure I have been told that I look scary, intimidating, and sometimes my tattoos scare people… but I have never been judged on my weight or breast size. This cave man mentality has made me livid! It has made me realize what a backwards society we still live in. And that I will definitely not be silent about it.
People seem to be more pre-occupied with criticizing people’s looks / image more than they are with loving the human race. What is perfect??? Nothing… there will never be a definition of perfect, because perfect does not exist. We all have different tastes and that is what makes us individuals.
The things I have experienced in life, the pain, the violence, the hate, the love, the happiness is what makes me the person I am today. It is what makes me share myself with my fans, through my songs and words. And I know that those fans can relate to me, not for the way I look, but for the things I say, think and feel.
I am where I am today, because of who I am, and the amount of hard work I have put into getting there. Not because of the way I look. And each one of you is where you are today because of the same reason. Never feel like you can’t achieve something because your looks are not ‘perfect’. Never let the beast put you down because they themselves are not comfortable with the way they look. Love every single part of your body, and appreciate its uniqueness and individuality. Always leave your heart open and don’t be afraid of sticking up for yourself. The way you are and the way you choose to present yourself is your choice, not anyone else’s.
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you have a beautiful mind and soul and i can tell from what you have just written.
you rule at life.
♥
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