Nov 01, 2005 16:51
Actions need to be justified, feelings do not.
This is between two people. Me and him. And pretty much ONLY me and him. So, you guys can feel however you want, but I don't think that getting angry at him for something that he didn't do to you is really fair. To him, or to anyone. It's like getting in a fight with your best friend and having their other friends hate you. It doesn't involve them, so what gives them the right to be angry?
Which OF COURSE isn't to say that its going unappriciated, because its a nice gesture. But really, it's unnecessary anger towards someone who really doesn't need it right now.
Not to mention that this anger is about what you KNOW about. Which I KNOW isn't all of it [because obviously we're the only two people that really know everything that we're thinking, feeling, and experiencing], and which may not even necessarily be the truth. Yet another reason why backing off is good.
So basically, mind your own business. And I'm saying that in the nicest way possible. This is a situation that does NOT need a million people involved.
Only two. One and two.
And that is what I think.
EDIT: In the heat of emotion of writing this entry, I noticed that I spelled a LOT of stuff wrong. My apologies. I'm not illiterate, just apathetic.