Posting this here too....cuz i can

[_kimmer_]

I HATE men.

I just do.

Screw them all.

Oh wait...that's all they want you to do anyway.

Flippin' A...I can't stand them and only caring about sex appeal.

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

Grow the Fuck Up and see what it's really about.

But I guess I don't know what it's really about.

Thus I am to be alone forever.

God damnit Life...I hate what you have done to me.

Comments

[john_uncensored]

guys aren't the only ones who just care about sex appeal. Women are even worse. For example, when you and Jess told me that Dane Cook made jokes about cheating on his girlfriend, I said, "Wow, I'm surprised that he can even get a girlfriend." But as you and Jess pointed out, "are you kidding, John, he's fucking HOT!"

The fact is, men and women are both shallow, but men get all the rap, because women think we're scum. I'm not arguing with that on all counts, but I just thought I'd throw in my two cents on that particular issue.

[_kimmer_]

Ok, well I think saying a celebrity is hot is a little different, cuz you aren't actually ever gonna pursue anything with them. i am talking about "real life", everyday people you know.

[_jessjess69_]

I agree with John..Girls are just as bad as guys. I don't know why people think it's just guys who care about sex appeal because it's not..girls care a hell of a lot about sex appeal as well. But, it's not just sex appeal..you have to have a deeper connection..and there always is a deeper connection. You don't have a relationship based on sex appeal..it's not..possible. So, you shouldn't think that. I think you're just thinking about it the wrong way and care a lot about looks.

[_kimmer_]

I'm not saying girls aren't that like either. But I mean, I don't really care about girls in that kind of matter so I didn't bring it up. But you all are telling me, there is someone out there, that is just gonna look at me and say, wow, i like her personality? I think there has to be some judgement on the looks, cuz that's the first thing that's always noticed. And for me, well it's gonna be impossible to attract someone that way. And I never even said anything about a relationship based on the sex appeal...i am just talking about the first step...which I have yet to step over.

[_jessjess69_]

I don't find that entirely true. about..more than half of my relationships..i hadn't liked the guy until i got to know his personality..and then, i found him attractive. Pretty much anything serious i ever have..that's how it goes. yes, if i just want a sex thing..i go for sex appeal, but..i don't go for sex appeal to start liking someone. I go for personality..and then that gets me attracted to them for some reason..and the sex appeal is there then. But..maybe i'm weird

[_kimmer_]

well no...yea that's how it works for 99.9% of the world...i'm just that .1% that's fucked over completely. I am 19 flippin' years old, and I have never had anything, and I am so tired of trying but only being seen as the "just friends" girl. That's what I mostly mean. Ok now I am going to go cry myself to sleep...again.