Aug 13, 2003 09:30
They did it. They actually put my grandfather in a nursing home without even the slightest regard for my mother’s feelings, or mine. My selfish bitch of an aunt manipulated my grandmother into thinking that his would be the best situation. Yes, I’m sure that sleeping alone in a house that has been occupied by her husband for 58 years will make all things better. She can’t even take care of herself; she has Alzheimer’s, too. I hate my aunt and uncle. I cont believe they did this. They just don’t want to have to deal with my grandfather now because it’s too much stress for their lives. Bullshit. They sit around their house all day long and work a measly 2 days a week. Oh yeah, that’s what I call stress. They are manipulative, selfish, and I want nothing to do with them. My aunt has turned my grandmother on my mom, and it’s disgusting. My grandma just hung up on my mother and always sides with my aunt. My poor mom walks around crying because her family has betrayed her, and now they are going to take away her dad. He won’t last in a nursing home. His spirit will die, and then he will too. I can’t believe they are doing this. Don’t they realize they will kill him? He won’t last there. He specifically asked his children not to put him in a nursing home, and now because my aunt is too lazy and selfish, she does it anyway. She tells me mom that she should be there (3,000 miles away) and see how horrible it is. Well, we were there for 2 weeks, and it wasn’t that bad. Sure it was hard, but my God, he has advanced Alzheimer’s! She is so self-centered! I’m glad the last words I heard from him were “I love you, “ because they will probably be the last thing I will ever hear from him. They are going to kill him there. Pump him full of drugs everyday so they don’t have to deal with him. That’s what happens. And then his spirit will die away. They are taking my grandfather from me.