Enneagram experts! If you please...
- What Enneagram type is most romantically compatible, to your knowledge or experience, with type 3?
- What does the classic 3 look for in a relationship? How does it differ for 3w4s?
- Can a 3(w4) be happy in a relationship with a 9(w1)?
Yes, specific situations call for specific questions. After 6 weeks of dating my lovely 9w1, I'm silently starting to think he's rather too vanilla/mainstream for my tastes...it's becoming a bit of a peeve. I almost feel like protecting him from the evil of half my interests and there's a shallowness that is both comfy and dulling at once. I miss a kind of passion or intensity. Clearly harems should be legalised, so I could simultaneously jump the sexy bones of some edgier, occult rocker type...
ETA: Dear Claire F., I'm not writing anyone off just yet. I'm not that heartless ;)
- What does the classic 3 look for in a relationship? How does it differ for 3w4s?
- Can a 3(w4) be happy in a relationship with a 9(w1)?
Yes, specific situations call for specific questions. After 6 weeks of dating my lovely 9w1, I'm silently starting to think he's rather too vanilla/mainstream for my tastes...it's becoming a bit of a peeve. I almost feel like protecting him from the evil of half my interests and there's a shallowness that is both comfy and dulling at once. I miss a kind of passion or intensity. Clearly harems should be legalised, so I could simultaneously jump the sexy bones of some edgier, occult rocker type...
ETA: Dear Claire F., I'm not writing anyone off just yet. I'm not that heartless ;)