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I feel so retarded. My mother and I were talking and I realized, there is a way to contact my lost brother. See, I was trying to be too direct. I was trying to contact him, when in reality I need to contact children services. I know they can't release records, but don't you think they could at least pass a letter on for me? If they won't give the letter directly to my brother, couldn't they give it to the adoptive parents?
It may not work, but honestly? Is there someone out there that would stop a sister from trying to find her long lost brother? Besides, he's 18 now. He should be able to make his own choices.
Ugh, but what if he doesn't know he adopted? Would it be fair for me to tear apart his only known life? Well, if I address the latter to the parents then that should solve that problem.
Something else I never thought about...he's not from California like I am. I just kinda always assumed he was since we're a year apart. He's actually from Colorado. Well, guess what I'll be doing during my next visit to Colorado? Maybe my grandparents will help. After all, he is their grandson.
It may not work, but honestly? Is there someone out there that would stop a sister from trying to find her long lost brother? Besides, he's 18 now. He should be able to make his own choices.
Ugh, but what if he doesn't know he adopted? Would it be fair for me to tear apart his only known life? Well, if I address the latter to the parents then that should solve that problem.
Something else I never thought about...he's not from California like I am. I just kinda always assumed he was since we're a year apart. He's actually from Colorado. Well, guess what I'll be doing during my next visit to Colorado? Maybe my grandparents will help. After all, he is their grandson.