you've kind of crossed the line.
do not, i repeat, do not call my girlfriend a bitch to my face just because she doesn't want to be your friend.
i don't go around trying to make people who don't like me my friend, i just ignore or avoid them.
and don't be talking shit about her because i've never said shit about your boyfriend when you were with him.
you should know how it feels, one of your close friends called your ex-boyfriend ugly and you stopped talking to him.
that gives you a clue as to what i'm about to do.
and through all this bullshit, i'm still not taking any sides because i think both sides are at fault.
here's why, and i'll try to avoid using names so i don't call anyone out (you know who you are):
it's his fault because he didn't know how to control his hormones or realize that he had a fucking awesome relationship with a fucking awesome girlfriend and what he was about to was going to ruin his relationship completely. and from your story, which i do agree with, he's the one who started all of this.
it's your fault because you don't know how to make a conscious (i.e. sober and well thought out) decision to say no; simple as that. you, too, had a boyfriend at the time, which is why you should have said no from the beginning. i'm sure your boyfriend wouldn't have broken up with you if you hadn't been so preoccupied with this other guy who you barely knew and who probably only wanted to get in your pants (no offense to "the other guy").
it's his fault because he didn't think out the consequences and how they would never be the same. he dun goof'd. seriously though, he should have listened to the advice of his friends because they knew this was going to be bad news for him. i'm not calling you bad news, rather, him breaking up with his girlfriend over something that could have easily been avoidable.
it's also his fault because even though he really wants to get back with his ex-girlfriend, he can't find it in his heart to stop talking to you or stop seeing you. he needs learn how to fucking stop being so goddamn clingy to something that shouldn't even be happening right now.
it's your fault because you, too, wouldn't let him go. you keep saying you want him to get back with his ex-girlfriend, yet, you still allow an intimate physical and emotional relationship to occur and you still make it a point to talk to him and have him call you by terms of endearment as if you guys were an actual couple, which, like i said, shouldn't even be happening in the first place. he's already made the step to trying to move on by deleting you from his phone and facebook and whatnot.
and i don't know if you've received any opposition from your friends about him and you being together, but if you did, you should have listened to your friends.
there's my two cents about this all this bullshit that shouldn't even be happening anymore. it's causing more problems than it should.
and it's not a matter of who, but rather, it's just both of you who are being immature. so both of you, fucking stop it.
i don't go around trying to make people who don't like me my friend, i just ignore or avoid them.
and don't be talking shit about her because i've never said shit about your boyfriend when you were with him.
you should know how it feels, one of your close friends called your ex-boyfriend ugly and you stopped talking to him.
that gives you a clue as to what i'm about to do.
and through all this bullshit, i'm still not taking any sides because i think both sides are at fault.
here's why, and i'll try to avoid using names so i don't call anyone out (you know who you are):
it's his fault because he didn't know how to control his hormones or realize that he had a fucking awesome relationship with a fucking awesome girlfriend and what he was about to was going to ruin his relationship completely. and from your story, which i do agree with, he's the one who started all of this.
it's your fault because you don't know how to make a conscious (i.e. sober and well thought out) decision to say no; simple as that. you, too, had a boyfriend at the time, which is why you should have said no from the beginning. i'm sure your boyfriend wouldn't have broken up with you if you hadn't been so preoccupied with this other guy who you barely knew and who probably only wanted to get in your pants (no offense to "the other guy").
it's his fault because he didn't think out the consequences and how they would never be the same. he dun goof'd. seriously though, he should have listened to the advice of his friends because they knew this was going to be bad news for him. i'm not calling you bad news, rather, him breaking up with his girlfriend over something that could have easily been avoidable.
it's also his fault because even though he really wants to get back with his ex-girlfriend, he can't find it in his heart to stop talking to you or stop seeing you. he needs learn how to fucking stop being so goddamn clingy to something that shouldn't even be happening right now.
it's your fault because you, too, wouldn't let him go. you keep saying you want him to get back with his ex-girlfriend, yet, you still allow an intimate physical and emotional relationship to occur and you still make it a point to talk to him and have him call you by terms of endearment as if you guys were an actual couple, which, like i said, shouldn't even be happening in the first place. he's already made the step to trying to move on by deleting you from his phone and facebook and whatnot.
and i don't know if you've received any opposition from your friends about him and you being together, but if you did, you should have listened to your friends.
there's my two cents about this all this bullshit that shouldn't even be happening anymore. it's causing more problems than it should.
and it's not a matter of who, but rather, it's just both of you who are being immature. so both of you, fucking stop it.