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It's been a crazy ride folks.
So Christmas was pretty normal. Ray bought me a Nintendo DS with 2 games (Cooking Mama & Hello Kitty: Big City Dreams) which I've already beaten, a Hello Kitty angel phone, a stuffed toy dog which I named Puppy, Cooking Mama: World Kitchen for wii, and Hello Kitty earbuds for my mp3 player. I looooooooove everything XD. Tara got me The Tales of the Beetle and The Bard HP book and Pushing Daisies season one, which I've already watched and looooooove. Kj brought me back a cool little chest with owl hidges and a hand carved dragon type hangy thing from Kuwait, which are amazing. My sister bought me a big fuzzy clover sticker and a vanilla apple candle. My parents got me loads of clothes, a winter coat, and the Bose circular knitting needle kit of my dreams XD. It was a pretty good Christmas.
New years on the other hand was very dramatic. UGH. Lets just say I'm starting to hate Rays family. Like I love his parents to death, but the other "adults" in his family act like immature little brats. Animals behave bettet at times.
The night was mainly fun until around 11 when Tara and I started noticing all the drunk children around. Yes, children. Rays nieces and nephews are between the ages of 12-19 and they were all drinking. WTF? Well Tara and I were bascially hanging out in Rays room with whomever happened to wander in.
Around 11:30 I heard shouting, sounds of a scuffle, and someone say the name Ray. FUCK! is basically what came out of my mouth. I opened his door to find out what was going on and here comes Ray down the hall. He punched clear through the wall and made his hand all bloody and swollen. He was coming after Lisa, whom I realized was standing in font of his parents room with Brandon in front of her. Ugh. I didn't even know what had happened there was just a lot of screaming going on and Ray was like.. terrifying. He was all red and his veins and eyes were buldgeing and he was just screaming all kinda of nothing at everyone.
So I managed to shove him, not very easily, mind you, out the back door. He started crying his eyes out and told me that Lisa was choking Mandy out and no one was trying to stop her. Lisa (age 43) is Rays sister and Mandy (age 23) is Lisas daughter. So essentially she was choking her own daughter. WTF, right? So I thought I was getting him all calmed down and was going inside to get a rag for his bloody hand when I heard Lisa screaming about Ray inside and he was off like a bullet back inside the house.
So once again I was trying to get him back outside but this time I was behind him trying to pull him, so I was at a disadvantage. I had his arms pinned back when he suddenly flung my arms off, smacking me in the jaw, hitting his aunt who was trying to grab her purse off the table next to him, and basically slinging his mom away. My foot went into the register and broke it because it was plastic ( I think this is where I fucked my ankle up). Then I managed to get back in front of him and push him out again, which was even harder than the first time. I got him out, with the help of his mom, and asked if she'd be okay with him while I got him a rag for his hand, which was still bleeding everywhere. Mandy came outside and just like riled him up more.
I should've mentioned earlier that everyone was extremely drunk, and by everyone I mean Mandy, Ray, and Lisa. So.. that doesn't help any situation.
Later I heard 2 versions of what happened.
Version A: Mandy and Lisa were argueing and Mandy said she was going to go for a walk. Lisa didn't want her to get arrested for walking drunk so she "tried" to stop her... by choking her. This makes no sense what so ever!
Version B: Mandy was being a super bitch to Lisa, which caused an arguement, which led to Mandy trying to flee out the front door, but ended up getting choked by Lisa.
Apparently though everyone was just yelling at Lisa to stop, and no one was even trying to stop her. Well Ray walked into the room, hearing the yells, saw Lisa choking Mandy, tried to get her hands off, which apparently she wasn't letting go, so Ray had to body slam her basically. Then Ray basically turned into a maniac.
Later he called Joe (Lisas boyfriend and Rays former BFF until Lisa made him her lap dog, age 28) and was trying to figure out why the hell Lisa would choke out her own daughter and Joe was all "this is your family business so I'm going to put you on speaker phone so everyone can hear." and I'm not saying this cause Ray is my hubby, I'm being completely honest and I was totally sober, so my memory isn't fuzzy, Ray was really calm and nice on the phone. He basically said "I just wanted to know why you would choke out your own daughter? All I saw when I walked in was Mandys face turning blue and Lisas hands around her throat and I reacted. Yeah, I was a dick afterwards, but I mean I didn't know how to react to that. Who would know how to react to that? I would kill anyone that tried to hurt Mandy cause she's basically like my little sister." Apparently Lisa had not calmed down nor sobered up. She was just screaming about everything and saying that she didn't even touch Mandy and all sorts of bullshit, so Ray just said "Okay so I guess we can't talk about this yet. Have a good night." and hung up while Lisa was still screaming.
WELL that phone conversation later turned into Ray calling Joe and threatening to put Brian (Lisas 19 year old son who wasn't at the party when the fight happened NOR in the room when the speaker phone convo happened) and Joe in "thier graves". UM.. WTF? He didn't say anything like that. Lisa and her "family" and making shit up to start even MORE drama and it pisses me the fuck off.
OH! and the next morning Mandy didn't even remember what happened. So who knows if Lisa actually remembered or if she's just making up her own story from what other people told her, and what would make her appear innocent. Makes me sick to my stomache.
Plus I found out that night that Lisa apparently has never liked me. She thinks I'm selfish and controling over Ray. She said I don't do anything but hold him back, or something. Whatever bitch.
Like I said, I don't really like most of his family anymore. Happy fucking New Year, right? This all happened around 11:30 so by midnight people were bruised and angry.
Now on to other news..
I'm starting to get aggravated with my job. Last week I only worked 2 hours on Tuesday and Wednesday because they ran out of work. PLUS they're starting to train 10 more people to do what the 8 of us have already been doing so then there will be 18 of us. Think of how fast our work load will go then. I need 40 hours a week, dammit!!
I have so many knitting projects going now since I have money for yaaaaaaaarn. <3
So Christmas was pretty normal. Ray bought me a Nintendo DS with 2 games (Cooking Mama & Hello Kitty: Big City Dreams) which I've already beaten, a Hello Kitty angel phone, a stuffed toy dog which I named Puppy, Cooking Mama: World Kitchen for wii, and Hello Kitty earbuds for my mp3 player. I looooooooove everything XD. Tara got me The Tales of the Beetle and The Bard HP book and Pushing Daisies season one, which I've already watched and looooooove. Kj brought me back a cool little chest with owl hidges and a hand carved dragon type hangy thing from Kuwait, which are amazing. My sister bought me a big fuzzy clover sticker and a vanilla apple candle. My parents got me loads of clothes, a winter coat, and the Bose circular knitting needle kit of my dreams XD. It was a pretty good Christmas.
New years on the other hand was very dramatic. UGH. Lets just say I'm starting to hate Rays family. Like I love his parents to death, but the other "adults" in his family act like immature little brats. Animals behave bettet at times.
The night was mainly fun until around 11 when Tara and I started noticing all the drunk children around. Yes, children. Rays nieces and nephews are between the ages of 12-19 and they were all drinking. WTF? Well Tara and I were bascially hanging out in Rays room with whomever happened to wander in.
Around 11:30 I heard shouting, sounds of a scuffle, and someone say the name Ray. FUCK! is basically what came out of my mouth. I opened his door to find out what was going on and here comes Ray down the hall. He punched clear through the wall and made his hand all bloody and swollen. He was coming after Lisa, whom I realized was standing in font of his parents room with Brandon in front of her. Ugh. I didn't even know what had happened there was just a lot of screaming going on and Ray was like.. terrifying. He was all red and his veins and eyes were buldgeing and he was just screaming all kinda of nothing at everyone.
So I managed to shove him, not very easily, mind you, out the back door. He started crying his eyes out and told me that Lisa was choking Mandy out and no one was trying to stop her. Lisa (age 43) is Rays sister and Mandy (age 23) is Lisas daughter. So essentially she was choking her own daughter. WTF, right? So I thought I was getting him all calmed down and was going inside to get a rag for his bloody hand when I heard Lisa screaming about Ray inside and he was off like a bullet back inside the house.
So once again I was trying to get him back outside but this time I was behind him trying to pull him, so I was at a disadvantage. I had his arms pinned back when he suddenly flung my arms off, smacking me in the jaw, hitting his aunt who was trying to grab her purse off the table next to him, and basically slinging his mom away. My foot went into the register and broke it because it was plastic ( I think this is where I fucked my ankle up). Then I managed to get back in front of him and push him out again, which was even harder than the first time. I got him out, with the help of his mom, and asked if she'd be okay with him while I got him a rag for his hand, which was still bleeding everywhere. Mandy came outside and just like riled him up more.
I should've mentioned earlier that everyone was extremely drunk, and by everyone I mean Mandy, Ray, and Lisa. So.. that doesn't help any situation.
Later I heard 2 versions of what happened.
Version A: Mandy and Lisa were argueing and Mandy said she was going to go for a walk. Lisa didn't want her to get arrested for walking drunk so she "tried" to stop her... by choking her. This makes no sense what so ever!
Version B: Mandy was being a super bitch to Lisa, which caused an arguement, which led to Mandy trying to flee out the front door, but ended up getting choked by Lisa.
Apparently though everyone was just yelling at Lisa to stop, and no one was even trying to stop her. Well Ray walked into the room, hearing the yells, saw Lisa choking Mandy, tried to get her hands off, which apparently she wasn't letting go, so Ray had to body slam her basically. Then Ray basically turned into a maniac.
Later he called Joe (Lisas boyfriend and Rays former BFF until Lisa made him her lap dog, age 28) and was trying to figure out why the hell Lisa would choke out her own daughter and Joe was all "this is your family business so I'm going to put you on speaker phone so everyone can hear." and I'm not saying this cause Ray is my hubby, I'm being completely honest and I was totally sober, so my memory isn't fuzzy, Ray was really calm and nice on the phone. He basically said "I just wanted to know why you would choke out your own daughter? All I saw when I walked in was Mandys face turning blue and Lisas hands around her throat and I reacted. Yeah, I was a dick afterwards, but I mean I didn't know how to react to that. Who would know how to react to that? I would kill anyone that tried to hurt Mandy cause she's basically like my little sister." Apparently Lisa had not calmed down nor sobered up. She was just screaming about everything and saying that she didn't even touch Mandy and all sorts of bullshit, so Ray just said "Okay so I guess we can't talk about this yet. Have a good night." and hung up while Lisa was still screaming.
WELL that phone conversation later turned into Ray calling Joe and threatening to put Brian (Lisas 19 year old son who wasn't at the party when the fight happened NOR in the room when the speaker phone convo happened) and Joe in "thier graves". UM.. WTF? He didn't say anything like that. Lisa and her "family" and making shit up to start even MORE drama and it pisses me the fuck off.
OH! and the next morning Mandy didn't even remember what happened. So who knows if Lisa actually remembered or if she's just making up her own story from what other people told her, and what would make her appear innocent. Makes me sick to my stomache.
Plus I found out that night that Lisa apparently has never liked me. She thinks I'm selfish and controling over Ray. She said I don't do anything but hold him back, or something. Whatever bitch.
Like I said, I don't really like most of his family anymore. Happy fucking New Year, right? This all happened around 11:30 so by midnight people were bruised and angry.
Now on to other news..
I'm starting to get aggravated with my job. Last week I only worked 2 hours on Tuesday and Wednesday because they ran out of work. PLUS they're starting to train 10 more people to do what the 8 of us have already been doing so then there will be 18 of us. Think of how fast our work load will go then. I need 40 hours a week, dammit!!
I have so many knitting projects going now since I have money for yaaaaaaaarn. <3