Well, dearest, obviously you didn't read the last part, where I said YOU annoyed me. Not just the politics answer, but YOU. But since you think you can tell me how to rate people, I will break this down for you, pointing out your every flaw in my eyes. (That seems like what you want!)
1. "Donnie Darko". How hardcore of you. Real fucking original. 2. Your lyrics. Once again, how fucing original. EVERYONE likes those lyrics. You little trend whore. 3. Your TBS quote. I will definately take you up on that offer, hun! 4. "FOrget labels" hahaha. Fag. That's all I say about that! 5. Your grammar was total shit. 6. Your Gay marriage answer was a tad ignorant. 7. Your icon. Boys kissing. I bet you think that's just so 'hawt' eh? 8. I think you're fake. As fake as they come. 9. Before, you understood why we HAD to go to war, and now, you don't understand ANY of it? LIAR. LIAR LIAR LIAR!
If I did that for every little annoying LJ-applying fuck I would have no time. I knew I didn't like you for more than the first reason, but decided to save us both some time. Obviously, you think that you are just like, so toally awesome, that like, no one could say no to you. Also, how can you judge me on one thing, isn't THAT shallow. Fucking hypocrite. Ah. Whoreface. I smite you.
Constructive Criticismfabio82April 11 2005, 23:50:07 UTC
Sorry to burst your bubble, but by saying what I said I was trying to show you and everyone else just how much of an asshole you really are. Obviously, you can do that on your own. But just so you really get the picture, I will break it down for you. 1. "Donnie Darko" is my favorite movie. I just like it. I watched it on my own, not because someone told me to, not because everyone else was seeing it, but because i wanted to watch it. I like it. OK, is that a crime? Liking a movie? Not to mention, half of the people i know haven't seen it. 2. My lyrics. First of all, do you even know what song that is and what band it is by? Well, if you don't know, it is "Hurricane" by Something Corporate. I would have to say most of my friends have never heard of Something Corporate and therefore do not listen to them. I would also like to point out that I have never read another persons application, so i obviously wouldn't have seen those lyrics and copied them from other people. 3. Ahh, my TBS quote, once again, I have never heard anyone say those lyrics, let alone read them in anything by another person. I like them, such a crime i know. To put lyrics I like down on a survey that is asking for my favorites. 4. "Forget labels." That statement is how I truly feel. I don't see the point in catagorizing people. I'm sorry if your opinion is different, but that doesn't mean it has to be mine too. 5. "[My] grammer was total shit." Well, first of all, I personally did not type most of that, Danielle did. And for that matter, a lot of my answers, she put down, in her own words. So maybe you should take that up with her, considering this is HER community. Also, look at the grammer on what you replied. It is the exact same as what I used. It's a survey on the internet, being viewed by peers, do you really think anyone reading it really cares what kind of grammer i used? 6. My gay marriage answer. A truthful answer. A lot of my very good friends have been gay. My cousin is gay. I have experience around gay people. I know what I am talking about. And once again, it's an opinion. The only way you would be able to argue with that is if you were gay and therefore have hands-ons experience on this subject. So in less you plan on coming out of any closets, so to speak, you can shut up and accept my opinion. 7. My icon. Danielle put that on there. Not me. So you can take it up with her if you want. I like it, I will admit. But I wouldn't be caught dead saying something like "haut." 8. So you think I'm "fake." Well, you're saying that I am like everyone else, so that means that you must be saying everyone else is fake too. Trust me, honey, I'm as real as they come. I'm in all advanced classes, and I am the only one there who listens to emo, and dresses the way I do, acts the way I do--I go against all my classmates. So I am definitely NOT following the crowd. 9. My political stance. This was written by Danielle. I honestly didn't know what to put, because, like i said, politics just aren't my thing.
Constructive Criticism (continued)fabio82April 11 2005, 23:51:04 UTC
Now that I have made everything abundantly and thoroughly clear, hopefully you will have a better understanding and not make any more false judgements and assumptions. I would like to state that I do not think I am "so totally awesome." I only thought I should have a fair chance and that you had not given me that. I would also like to point out to you that since Danielle wrote most of my answers, and you seemed to find me so annoying, in all reality you must think that Danielle is really annoying. She is my best friend, and I am sure she would agree that you are either jealous, or just too self-righteous to give me or anyone else who is not exactly like you a fair chance at this, or anyting else. I only hope that you are not too much of a pompous illiterate to read this, and that you will actually try to understand what I am trying to say. I am not trying to say that you are a bad person, or that I think anything bad about you, that is irrelevant. What I am trying to say here is that you may want to consider the following things in the future or else people will start to think you are a bad person and a million other insults because that is all you have done here: insulted me. Maybe you should stop being so close-minded and realize that there are people in the world who are not your exact duplicate, and they are going to have opinions that go against yours, and you will have to accept it or you will get eaten alive. I think I can make a fair judgement here in saying that your opinion of me will not change because you are too arrogant and stubborn for that. I just hope some poor young girl who isn't as opinionated and self-assured as I am won't fall victim to your self-absorbed "my opinion is superior and everyone else is wrong" way of life and actually be upset by this. This is my constructive criticism, you should try it sometime.
Re: Constructive Criticism (continued)emodork08April 12 2005, 00:34:20 UTC
I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY! THIS IS A RATING COMMUNITY, AND THEREFORE, I AM ALLOWED TO SAY NO, AND DON'T HAVE TO GIVE "CONSTRUCTIVE CRITISISM". HELL, I CAN SAY NO WITHOUT EVEN READING THAT, IF I WANTED.
Okay. So I wrote that before I read the entirity of the novel you wrote. Seeing that I am so close-minded, further elaboration on the above thought would just help your case. The thing is, when I posted that second comment, I was just really pissed at the audacity you had in telling me, an existing member, how the way I judged you was unfair. That is screwed up. But seeing that I was acting with that attitude, half the things I said were in fact a little too harsh. Here is a little Constructive critisism, since I am so OPEN to trying new things. Don't let your friends type your application. It's kind of cheating, and seems like a scape-goat. Almost everything I didn't like seemed to be Danielle's fault. If you join a couple more communities, you will notice a trend in favorite books and movies. It just seems like in order to fit your scene, you HAVE to like those movies. (Just something to keep your eye out for). Also, another thing that pissed me off, is you saying that I am arrogant and stubborn. But I will let that slide. I am opinionated, just like you called yourself. By saying no to you, I wasn't saying you sucked, and that you were wrong, I was just saying I didn't like what I see. I mean, how can we really judge someone by a one page 'application'. I'm sure if I really got to know you, I would only have to slap you once or twice (Joke! I think you might be pretty cool). Now, I could go on and bicker back and forth, picking apart your every word of the last two comments, but then you would do the same, and then we would get into a never ending cycle until one of us dies, but it would be just so much more easier to agree to disagree. I am sorry for calling you a whoreface, and I am sorry for implying that you were fake. One must understand my assumptions and name-calling seeing that the lovely Danielle typed most of it.
Re: Constructive Criticism (continued)savesthedaykid7April 13 2005, 01:11:25 UTC
this is not a fucking rating community, read the fucking rules. if you dont like me then leave. wait it doesnt matter anyway because you broke the rules anyway.
Re: Constructive Criticism (continued)emodork08April 13 2005, 21:00:17 UTC
When I said rating, I meant that people get accepted by voting, and we rate whether or not we want them in here. That's the point of voting, right? I never meant to imply that this is an appearance-based rating community.
I too must admit that all of my replies were very much fueled by anger and outrage. Sorry! I really feel bad now for acting like that, but it did make me feel a lil better to get those things out, and anger is a motivator. so i would definitely agree on a truce. I misjudged you, and I take back all the hurtful, ill-mannered things I said to you. Honestly, after that last response, my view on you has flipped completely around. I think, despite our differences, we could get to be pretty good friends if we wanted. You seem like a cool person and also intelligent, which I consider to be a very good thing. Yeah, so about that whole application thing, I really don't have any experience with them, and that's one of the reasons why I let Danielle fill it out. I didn't really know what to do, so she was trying to help me. I will definitely heed your word and not do that again, because not only does it not let people really get an idea of what I am truly like, but it also will skew peoples' judgment, and as we have found out first-hand, cause problems. I'm sure once I gain more experience in this whole communities thing I will be able to give more personal answers and not seem so typical. So, in the interest of not writing another novel (which by the way I totally agree, that thing was like an essay), I'll try to keep this kind of short. So, do you have an AIM screen name? because I would really like to get to know you better. Once again, sorry for acting like an ass. Truce. :-)
I think that was definately healthy to get our anger out, and now find an understanding with it! Thanks for not tracking me down and egging my house. My screenname is pinchme05 and I accept your apology and reiterate mine! Cheers ♥
1. "Donnie Darko". How hardcore of you. Real fucking original.
2. Your lyrics. Once again, how fucing original. EVERYONE likes those lyrics. You little trend whore.
3. Your TBS quote. I will definately take you up on that offer, hun!
4. "FOrget labels" hahaha. Fag. That's all I say about that!
5. Your grammar was total shit.
6. Your Gay marriage answer was a tad ignorant.
7. Your icon. Boys kissing. I bet you think that's just so 'hawt' eh?
8. I think you're fake. As fake as they come.
9. Before, you understood why we HAD to go to war, and now, you don't understand ANY of it? LIAR. LIAR LIAR LIAR!
If I did that for every little annoying LJ-applying fuck I would have no time. I knew I didn't like you for more than the first reason, but decided to save us both some time. Obviously, you think that you are just like, so toally awesome, that like, no one could say no to you. Also, how can you judge me on one thing, isn't THAT shallow. Fucking hypocrite. Ah. Whoreface. I smite you.
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1. "Donnie Darko" is my favorite movie. I just like it. I watched it on my own, not because someone told me to, not because everyone else was seeing it, but because i wanted to watch it. I like it. OK, is that a crime? Liking a movie? Not to mention, half of the people i know haven't seen it.
2. My lyrics. First of all, do you even know what song that is and what band it is by? Well, if you don't know, it is "Hurricane" by Something Corporate. I would have to say most of my friends have never heard of Something Corporate and therefore do not listen to them. I would also like to point out that I have never read another persons application, so i obviously wouldn't have seen those lyrics and copied them from other people.
3. Ahh, my TBS quote, once again, I have never heard anyone say those lyrics, let alone read them in anything by another person. I like them, such a crime i know. To put lyrics I like down on a survey that is asking for my favorites.
4. "Forget labels." That statement is how I truly feel. I don't see the point in catagorizing people. I'm sorry if your opinion is different, but that doesn't mean it has to be mine too.
5. "[My] grammer was total shit." Well, first of all, I personally did not type most of that, Danielle did. And for that matter, a lot of my answers, she put down, in her own words. So maybe you should take that up with her, considering this is HER community. Also, look at the grammer on what you replied. It is the exact same as what I used. It's a survey on the internet, being viewed by peers, do you really think anyone reading it really cares what kind of grammer i used?
6. My gay marriage answer. A truthful answer. A lot of my very good friends have been gay. My cousin is gay. I have experience around gay people. I know what I am talking about. And once again, it's an opinion. The only way you would be able to argue with that is if you were gay and therefore have hands-ons experience on this subject. So in less you plan on coming out of any closets, so to speak, you can shut up and accept my opinion.
7. My icon. Danielle put that on there. Not me. So you can take it up with her if you want. I like it, I will admit. But I wouldn't be caught dead saying something like "haut."
8. So you think I'm "fake." Well, you're saying that I am like everyone else, so that means that you must be saying everyone else is fake too. Trust me, honey, I'm as real as they come. I'm in all advanced classes, and I am the only one there who listens to emo, and dresses the way I do, acts the way I do--I go against all my classmates. So I am definitely NOT following the crowd.
9. My political stance. This was written by Danielle. I honestly didn't know what to put, because, like i said, politics just aren't my thing.
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Okay. So I wrote that before I read the entirity of the novel you wrote. Seeing that I am so close-minded, further elaboration on the above thought would just help your case. The thing is, when I posted that second comment, I was just really pissed at the audacity you had in telling me, an existing member, how the way I judged you was unfair. That is screwed up. But seeing that I was acting with that attitude, half the things I said were in fact a little too harsh. Here is a little Constructive critisism, since I am so OPEN to trying new things. Don't let your friends type your application. It's kind of cheating, and seems like a scape-goat. Almost everything I didn't like seemed to be Danielle's fault. If you join a couple more communities, you will notice a trend in favorite books and movies. It just seems like in order to fit your scene, you HAVE to like those movies. (Just something to keep your eye out for). Also, another thing that pissed me off, is you saying that I am arrogant and stubborn. But I will let that slide. I am opinionated, just like you called yourself. By saying no to you, I wasn't saying you sucked, and that you were wrong, I was just saying I didn't like what I see. I mean, how can we really judge someone by a one page 'application'. I'm sure if I really got to know you, I would only have to slap you once or twice (Joke! I think you might be pretty cool). Now, I could go on and bicker back and forth, picking apart your every word of the last two comments, but then you would do the same, and then we would get into a never ending cycle until one of us dies, but it would be just so much more easier to agree to disagree. I am sorry for calling you a whoreface, and I am sorry for implying that you were fake. One must understand my assumptions and name-calling seeing that the lovely Danielle typed most of it.
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