Application
Names: Kim and Jay
Ages: 20 and 22
Location(s): NC
Status of relationship: Married
How long have you two been together?We have been together 22 months and married for 4
Anniversary date?2/23/04 ( when we started dating) and 8/6/05 ( when we got married)
How did you meet?We actaully met in highschool when I was 16, I had a huge crush on him but he picked someone else over me.. Then we saw each other agian in Jan of 2004 at a friends house and have pracitally been with each other ever since..
How do you know you're deeply in love?He was all I coudl think about, he was all I wanted.I felt every emotion that involved him so deeply and so intensely that is almost scared me. Everytime I kiss him my heart still skips a beat, he makes me feel like no one ever has before.. When I saw what a good father he was with my daughter that just made me realizze how much I really love him.
Tell us a funny story about the two of you:Well My daughter and I were laying on the bed one day watching tv and Jay wasent due to be home for hours... All of a sudden he ran through the door.. scaring the hell out of me jumped on the bed and of crouse it came crashing to the ground.. he had came home from work for a min just to see me so he had to leave and I was left there with a broken bed.. we ened up sleeping on it like that, that night because we couldnt fix it.. we also have alot of lil funny things we do between the both of us, we are always laughing..
Have you two had any obstacles that you've had to overcome so far in your relationship? If so, what were they, and how did you overcome them? Well Jay was away at basic training for 4 months.. he ended up injurying his hip and was unable to finish. Him being gone for so long was really hard for the both of us, but we each wrote the other almost everyday. He sent me the sweetest letters and cards.. pressed flowers and leaves.. he drew pictures for me because he knows I love them.. getting those letters in the mail everydya really helped keep me going without him.
If you're not already married, do you see marriage in the future with this person?
Would you marry them right now? I am already married to them.. but I would do it all over again if I had the choice..
What are some things you do to make each other feel special? We both leave letters and little notes laying around.. I leave him messages on his cell phone and he wakes me up everynight when he gets home so he can tell me about his day adn tell me that he loves me. We can't go to sleep wtihout saying I Love You. He will randomally buy we flowers or something he knows I will like... but he doesnt do it often which makes it special everytime he does.
Tell us a romantic story: well Jay isent the most romantic person.. while he was away he wrote me the most amazing and sweet letters but these arent things he can say in person..although one morning i woke up with a dozen roses laying beside me, he had gotten off work early and went and bought them.... it was really sweet..
Has your s/o ever made you cry or mistreated you in any way? We both have made each other cry... happens more often when we are fighting tho.
Have you met each others families? Do you all get along? Yes we have, his granndfather was actaully the one that married us. Now we do to start off with tho my mother didnt like him because he was going through a very hard time.. and to start off with his famliy scared me a bit, guess it just took time for us all to get use to each other.
Have you or your s/o ever been unfaithful to one another? This is something that we both are guilty of. He cheated on me with his ex girlfriend and I cheated on him with a friend to get back at him. That was the past tho and we are both over it. It ended up just making our relationship stronger and making me realize even more that I didnt want to live withour him.
Question of your choice! Tell us something we haven't asked about, but is something you want to share! We have a very beautifl baby boy that was born on december 7th. His name is Lukas and he looks extually like his daddy. I also have a 2 1/2 year old daughter from a previous relationship. He is a great dad to both of them. :)
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Post some pictures of you two!
This is us last christmas...
he really isent that much shorter than me.. just looks like it.. and this is again from last xmas.. or new years
Old picture of Jay and My daughter Julianna
Jay and Lukas the day he was born
me and lukas
My Julianna.. had to put pics of the kids in..
