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hair cut soon, like the man himself!
so exciting!
im housesitting a house next month, 70's dance party! playing only music from the era. more detail when it comes.
i hate money, insted of money we should trade things,5 records for 7 hugs, records for clothes a kind of trade ect ect. Im starting to stress out of how money is everything now days...
the world and the people around us for what they are and not what we think they should be or how we can change them to thinking as we do. Now this can be very tough but sometimes we can make a difference, especially when we see injustice. What I am saying is try to not beat your head against a wall trying to change someone to your way of thinking, just accept them for who they are.
To be happy you need to be satisfied with yourself: you need to know how to meet your needs.
Sure you are around other people wanting to satisfy their needs and this is healthy but just don't hurt yourself and stunt your own growth trying to satisfy other people's needs.
Now you need to be responsible for your own actions, I feel that of all the qualities in having good mental health this may be the most important as it takes a certain maturity to know and be able to express your feelings and then take the responsibility for your feelings and also your actions.
Doing this can make you a more mature and also stronger person.
Try to be a free person listen to your own feelings and also desires. Don't rely on others to determine how you live your life, it just isn't necessary. Sometimes you will have a friend that wants a certain image, say in the way she dresses, and she expects you to dress the same: don't as it is not necessary. If you lose that friend you will meet another. Think of yourself. Carry in your mind a positive picture of the peson that you are: this isn't being conceited, it is being real.
Can you be alone and be comfortable with yourself or do you always need others around? We all need to spend time by ourselves, not to the limit that we don't include others in our lives but we each need a little private time and don't feel guilty about taking this time for ourselves.
Be aware of your feelings, and express them honestlythis won't make you a phony and you won't become obnoxious, just express your feelings in a healthy way and not in a violent way, this can be done. Remember every situation you face is different than the last and has to be handled differently think before you speak.