I really hate to do this to you guys....
Yes, it's official. I'm going to be making my LJ friends only and there's really no ifs, ands or buts about it. It's completely necessary at this point and to those of you who read my LJ but don't have one I'm sorry. Just...get one and use it to read mine. That's not too much to ask. You don't have to update or anything.
Once again I really am sorry.