ugh i can't leave you a comment or message on myspace for whatever reason so i am putting this here:
shylashes: we need some girl talk asap omg heather stfu: k shylashes: i don't know if you know this or anything but i've been trying to talk to scott but he hasn't been saying anything back shylashes: i mean i'd ask him how his day was and everything, nothing big omg heather stfu: oh dear shylashes: for the longest time he wouldn't say anything and i got fed up and today he finally was like shylashes: "i'm sorry don't think that i hate you i've just been going through some rough times" basically the exact same shit i was going through actually shylashes: i chewed him out pretty much and was like, "either you want me or you don't, don't do this leading on bullshit anymore 'cause it just pisses me off" omg heather stfu: yeah shylashes: then um he invited me swimming and we just cuddled but i didn't let him kiss me this time. he was so sad so i just put my arms around him and held his hand and kissed his forehead. omg heather stfu: aw shylashes: it was sweet omg heather stfu: that's so cute omg heather stfu: so what are you gonna do? shylashes: i was like, "well i still give a shit about you no matter what i said earlier because it's the damn truth" and he was like, "i know you care, you showed me that today and i appreciate it" shylashes: just wait and see what he wants i guess. he's still hurting so bad. shylashes: i guess all i can do is wait huh omg heather stfu: yeah, I guess so omg heather stfu: try to be there for him without being a doormat I guess shylashes: basically i'm just a crying shoulder and a person to listen 'cause lord knows nobody's willing to listen to him any more since it's been going on awhile shylashes: he even said he was angry at god for letting this happen and that sort of offended me 'cause i am as big a christian as he is and i never thought i'd hear him say anything like that
hmm. have you talked to him since? i guess i agree with what she said about being there for him without being a doormat. but the best thing in my opinion would be to keep yourself from being too accessible. if he thinks he can just call on you any time he's upset, then he will. and god knows that's not good for you to have to deal with. you know?
also, did you tell him how outrageous his comment about god was?
shylashes: we need some girl talk asap
omg heather stfu: k
shylashes: i don't know if you know this or anything but i've been trying to talk to scott but he hasn't been saying anything back
shylashes: i mean i'd ask him how his day was and everything, nothing big
omg heather stfu: oh dear
shylashes: for the longest time he wouldn't say anything and i got fed up and today he finally was like
shylashes: "i'm sorry don't think that i hate you i've just been going through some rough times" basically the exact same shit i was going through actually
shylashes: i chewed him out pretty much and was like, "either you want me or you don't, don't do this leading on bullshit anymore 'cause it just pisses me off"
omg heather stfu: yeah
shylashes: then um he invited me swimming and we just cuddled but i didn't let him kiss me this time. he was so sad so i just put my arms around him and held his hand and kissed his forehead.
omg heather stfu: aw
shylashes: it was sweet
omg heather stfu: that's so cute
omg heather stfu: so what are you gonna do?
shylashes: i was like, "well i still give a shit about you no matter what i said earlier because it's the damn truth" and he was like, "i know you care, you showed me that today and i appreciate it"
shylashes: just wait and see what he wants i guess. he's still hurting so bad.
shylashes: i guess all i can do is wait huh
omg heather stfu: yeah, I guess so
omg heather stfu: try to be there for him without being a doormat I guess
shylashes: basically i'm just a crying shoulder and a person to listen 'cause lord knows nobody's willing to listen to him any more since it's been going on awhile
shylashes: he even said he was angry at god for letting this happen and that sort of offended me 'cause i am as big a christian as he is and i never thought i'd hear him say anything like that
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have you talked to him since?
i guess i agree with what she said about being there for him without being a doormat.
but the best thing in my opinion would be to keep yourself from being too accessible. if he thinks he can just call on you any time he's upset, then he will. and god knows that's not good for you to have to deal with. you know?
also, did you tell him how outrageous his comment about god was?
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