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i recieved some awesome advice today.. from an awesome friend:
" after so many tries the term "im sorry".. it loses its affect.. bc if he was sorry he wouldnt have to keep saying it bc he'd stop. when you hear it everyday it just bc another one of those things and it doesnt mean anything"
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"him saying "please dont make me do this" makes it seem like your doing something wrong, and your not, and i know you know that, but he knows how to manipulate people very well and get what he wants and i hope he'll never get what he wants from you again.. he deserves to have lost you forever.. hes lucky you even give him the time of day and honestly i doubt he realizes that"
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i'm not putting any energy towards guys anymore. i think i need to take a step back and realize that i don't need a guy in my life to be happy with myself. that's something that i obviously didn't understand for the past year or else i would have let the one person go who hurt me more than anything. i need to set standards, goals and such.. and not settle for less.
no more guy searching. i'll let them come to me. that might be never lol but at least i'll know that they're at least into me and not just me into them
sound good? any other advice? i'll take it
" after so many tries the term "im sorry".. it loses its affect.. bc if he was sorry he wouldnt have to keep saying it bc he'd stop. when you hear it everyday it just bc another one of those things and it doesnt mean anything"
...
"him saying "please dont make me do this" makes it seem like your doing something wrong, and your not, and i know you know that, but he knows how to manipulate people very well and get what he wants and i hope he'll never get what he wants from you again.. he deserves to have lost you forever.. hes lucky you even give him the time of day and honestly i doubt he realizes that"
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i'm not putting any energy towards guys anymore. i think i need to take a step back and realize that i don't need a guy in my life to be happy with myself. that's something that i obviously didn't understand for the past year or else i would have let the one person go who hurt me more than anything. i need to set standards, goals and such.. and not settle for less.
no more guy searching. i'll let them come to me. that might be never lol but at least i'll know that they're at least into me and not just me into them
sound good? any other advice? i'll take it