WHY ARE SOME MEN SUCH PIGS?
Ok. I am just going to rant about guys for a little bit...
I have never met so many sick and disgusting guys until I started going to Central. NEVER did I realize how guys can be so...ugh dog-like and dirty. In no way am I trying to flatter myself at all by saying this, but I had a lot of guys come on to me while I was up at school. I'm not bragging about this, i'm not thinking it was cool. The reason is because all of these guys were your average, pig headed dude and it was obvious that all they wanted was a piece of ass. Don't you fret because I did not give them any, you can believe me on that. I think my problem is that sometimes I am just too nice. If I were to be at a party and a guy would start talking to me, i'd talk with him for awhile, be nice, whatever. I even gave my number out a couple of times which I realized was a BIG mistake on my part. These guys became RIDICULOUS. Not even exaggerating, one guy I gave my number too would call me, on average, 2 or 3 times EVERY week, and not ONCE did I pick up. Why would you keep calling someone that many times who never picks up? I never understood it. I had a couple others just like that.
I guess it just disappoints me in a way that some guys allow themselves to be like this. Do you feel good about yourself when you're trying to talk to a girl just to get with her? Going into college, I was not looking for a guy at all, obviously, because I had a boyfriend that I loved very much and had no intention on losing him. However, I remember my Mom telling me that when I went away to school I would meet a lot of interesting guys because she questioned my entering college with a boyfriend. I can honestly say that throughout the entire school year, I met only one guy that I would ever consider dating. Of course I made friends with a lot of guys that were nice and cool, but as in guys that I would ever be interested in dating...ONE!
If anyone could help me with my problem, that would be great. I'm just really SICK and tired of guys IMing me, messaging me, calling me, whatever it is, trying to like.."hang out" with me. I don't know what i'm doing wrong...I guess I just feel bad "rejecting" them. All of these weirdo guys that keep trying to talk to me do not realize that I AM NOT INTERESTED IN THEM. I don't know how to get the point across without being a bitch. I just feel like by saying "um no, you know, i'm not really interested in hanging out with you," that i'd be sounding like a bitch. Ugh I don't know. It's just been really frustrating and i've been wanting to rant about it for awhile. So there. Haha.
I have never met so many sick and disgusting guys until I started going to Central. NEVER did I realize how guys can be so...ugh dog-like and dirty. In no way am I trying to flatter myself at all by saying this, but I had a lot of guys come on to me while I was up at school. I'm not bragging about this, i'm not thinking it was cool. The reason is because all of these guys were your average, pig headed dude and it was obvious that all they wanted was a piece of ass. Don't you fret because I did not give them any, you can believe me on that. I think my problem is that sometimes I am just too nice. If I were to be at a party and a guy would start talking to me, i'd talk with him for awhile, be nice, whatever. I even gave my number out a couple of times which I realized was a BIG mistake on my part. These guys became RIDICULOUS. Not even exaggerating, one guy I gave my number too would call me, on average, 2 or 3 times EVERY week, and not ONCE did I pick up. Why would you keep calling someone that many times who never picks up? I never understood it. I had a couple others just like that.
I guess it just disappoints me in a way that some guys allow themselves to be like this. Do you feel good about yourself when you're trying to talk to a girl just to get with her? Going into college, I was not looking for a guy at all, obviously, because I had a boyfriend that I loved very much and had no intention on losing him. However, I remember my Mom telling me that when I went away to school I would meet a lot of interesting guys because she questioned my entering college with a boyfriend. I can honestly say that throughout the entire school year, I met only one guy that I would ever consider dating. Of course I made friends with a lot of guys that were nice and cool, but as in guys that I would ever be interested in dating...ONE!
If anyone could help me with my problem, that would be great. I'm just really SICK and tired of guys IMing me, messaging me, calling me, whatever it is, trying to like.."hang out" with me. I don't know what i'm doing wrong...I guess I just feel bad "rejecting" them. All of these weirdo guys that keep trying to talk to me do not realize that I AM NOT INTERESTED IN THEM. I don't know how to get the point across without being a bitch. I just feel like by saying "um no, you know, i'm not really interested in hanging out with you," that i'd be sounding like a bitch. Ugh I don't know. It's just been really frustrating and i've been wanting to rant about it for awhile. So there. Haha.