*hugs* It's frightening how similar my parents are to yours. I can also relate to a lot of what you've said. There was a time when it seemed that my parents were going to make it impossible for me to see Jaz, but I got through it. I can tell you love her very much, and your relationship is a strong one, and that will help you with this.
Also, if her parents or your parents are concerned about her traveling alone, it's probably safer for a minor to travel alone than an adult. When I've traveled, I've seen children who were going by themselves. There are services where airport workers and probably bus personnel (if she'd be going that way) actually will accompany anyone under 18 between flights or drives and help them get settled on the plane or bus or whatever. That's something to call the companies to ask about the exact details, but it would be very safe.
If you ever need anything, or to talk or whatever, feel free to IM me on AIM (WhyDoIHaveAHead) or email me (himynameisjess@hotmail.com). I'm willing to help any way I can, or just to listen if that's what you want.
That's fine by me! :P It shouldn't be hard to catch me since I'm on.. almost all the time. :P
Yeah, most of it was all from my parents. First they were like "It's too far!" then they (somehow) found out everything and being the homophobic asshats that they are, they had a really ugly fit about that. They still have some learning to do though, that they should just accept it and give up with trying to control me. Some parents just have a really hard time with learning and/or accepting this, but they'll have to sooner or later.
My parents don't know about Katie and me, but I'll imagine that someday...they'll be upset. I'm sorry about how your parents reacted. I think they're worried that they raised us wrong or that they won't have grandchild. Especially mothers.
I think my parents are just psycho.. they think I chose it just to piss them off and I can just flip an off switch and "turn straight." There's a whole other bunch of weird theories like my gay friends turning me gay, or cult brainwashings, yea..my parents are psycho. 0.0
Also, if her parents or your parents are concerned about her traveling alone, it's probably safer for a minor to travel alone than an adult. When I've traveled, I've seen children who were going by themselves. There are services where airport workers and probably bus personnel (if she'd be going that way) actually will accompany anyone under 18 between flights or drives and help them get settled on the plane or bus or whatever. That's something to call the companies to ask about the exact details, but it would be very safe.
If you ever need anything, or to talk or whatever, feel free to IM me on AIM (WhyDoIHaveAHead) or email me (himynameisjess@hotmail.com). I'm willing to help any way I can, or just to listen if that's what you want.
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I understand the struggles that happened between you and Jaz, but I'm glad that you two have been together. That gives me hope.
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Yeah, most of it was all from my parents. First they were like "It's too far!" then they (somehow) found out everything and being the homophobic asshats that they are, they had a really ugly fit about that. They still have some learning to do though, that they should just accept it and give up with trying to control me. Some parents just have a really hard time with learning and/or accepting this, but they'll have to sooner or later.
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Thanks, honey.
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Any time! :)
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