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He basically refuses to address the issue of having an anniversary. Whenever I bring it up, he just asks me questions back, having conveniently forgotten everything that we talked about the last time. Ugh. Without an anniversary, we might as well be unofficial. I know I'm being nit picky, but uhh yeah it's not fun answering "How long have you been together?" with an "about soandso months..I think."
He also refuses, still, to really plan anything. Last Friday was the first time in so long that we went out, and I basically suggested it, paid for the tickets, and got him there. I mean..I had to tell him what to wear. I get that he's trying to make me happy, but that would go along more smoothly if he was more of a guy about these things. I'm so tired of planning everything. Again. "How's he doing this time?" people ask. And what am I supposed to tell them? That I'm stuck with him like a habit even though he's being the same?
I was talking to my brother last night about it, and I guess he wasn't all too happy. I gave him my phone to play games on while we were driving home and I must have fallen asleep because he texted Stephen about it. Ugh. When we got home we talked some more and he was saying how, from the sounds of it, my guy friends do more for me than he does. I think he was mostly talking about my lab partner and my pledge uncle, but I don't know. UGH.
I'm probably just pissed about this because my cousin got married last night and it was so romantic and beautiful that I'm jealous. Honestly, I don't think I'll ever get any of that staying where I am.
He also refuses, still, to really plan anything. Last Friday was the first time in so long that we went out, and I basically suggested it, paid for the tickets, and got him there. I mean..I had to tell him what to wear. I get that he's trying to make me happy, but that would go along more smoothly if he was more of a guy about these things. I'm so tired of planning everything. Again. "How's he doing this time?" people ask. And what am I supposed to tell them? That I'm stuck with him like a habit even though he's being the same?
I was talking to my brother last night about it, and I guess he wasn't all too happy. I gave him my phone to play games on while we were driving home and I must have fallen asleep because he texted Stephen about it. Ugh. When we got home we talked some more and he was saying how, from the sounds of it, my guy friends do more for me than he does. I think he was mostly talking about my lab partner and my pledge uncle, but I don't know. UGH.
I'm probably just pissed about this because my cousin got married last night and it was so romantic and beautiful that I'm jealous. Honestly, I don't think I'll ever get any of that staying where I am.