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marriage. wow.
could you ever imagine someone loving you so dang much, they'd wanna spend the rest of their damn life with you?
I can't.
I mean, I know people get divorced left and right anyway...but could you imagine them thinking that, even for just little while? long enough to go through with it?
getting married would probably mean they really REALLY mean it. like proof. proof that everyone could see.
it would probably be a really nice feeling. I mean knowing that someone loved me that dang much.
But...maybe a little, to me...marriage means investing enough time and energy and emotion with someone, that you are so exhausted about the idea of ever breaking up, and having to do so much work to get to that point with another person again, that you really don't wanna bother, so you do something that is the closest thing to making sure you won't have to. at least for a long, long time.
marriage is proof. I think that's why breaking up after a long ass relationship sucks so bad. you got nothing to show for it.
I'm the kind of person who likes proof. So that and the end of it all, I can say, "Here, look, I can prove it. I wasn't just fooling myself. He really did love me."
But I don't want no marriage.
could you ever imagine someone loving you so dang much, they'd wanna spend the rest of their damn life with you?
I can't.
I mean, I know people get divorced left and right anyway...but could you imagine them thinking that, even for just little while? long enough to go through with it?
getting married would probably mean they really REALLY mean it. like proof. proof that everyone could see.
it would probably be a really nice feeling. I mean knowing that someone loved me that dang much.
But...maybe a little, to me...marriage means investing enough time and energy and emotion with someone, that you are so exhausted about the idea of ever breaking up, and having to do so much work to get to that point with another person again, that you really don't wanna bother, so you do something that is the closest thing to making sure you won't have to. at least for a long, long time.
marriage is proof. I think that's why breaking up after a long ass relationship sucks so bad. you got nothing to show for it.
I'm the kind of person who likes proof. So that and the end of it all, I can say, "Here, look, I can prove it. I wasn't just fooling myself. He really did love me."
But I don't want no marriage.