Something to keep in mind.
Reality therapy states that everyone is responsible for their own behavior not society, not the enviroment, not hereity, not the past but the person now. It is helping people learn how to take a look at what they are doing and then teaching them to evaluate their behavior and make a plan to do better. It is not a textbook or magic solution to problems. It is accept responsibilty for what one does. It is not looking for a blame or finding fault or dwelling on the past or feeling sorry for oneself. It is striving to do better within the reality of ones own solution. It is life. It is hard work. It is the way you live with yourself and others.
So that is a poster in my summer school class room. It inspired me to do better. Glad to see i'm learning something.