A-yoo~
LAILA HERE~
So um , I don't make journal entries that often but I guess I have some thing to let out that I can't tell any of my irl friends so I'll just let it all out on here. Is not a sob story just a drama llama , wtf story . heh.
So first things first. If someone forces you to give them a blowjob , is that still considered rape? I'm wondering because it happened to my friend. Her ex-boyfriend forced her to and she just told me now :[ (lets call her E). Its good that she broke up with him now and is with the guy of her dreams but here the problem , He's found a way back into her life. The worse part is ... He's dating our other friend (lets call her K). Yeah , so the asshole douchebag guy is dating our other friend who KNEW about the blowjob before. She also knew how E felt after it , E felt dirty and fell into depression. It was her first time she had any sexual relation with another guy so it was a big shock to her I guess. So now , K says she's madly in love with this douchebag and E feels sort of betrayed and disappointed. The asshole even told E that he wouldn't get a girlfriend for a year if she broke up with him. He lied and now is friending all her friends and making her feel paranoid. Oh , want to know the best part, He asked them out , THE SAME EXACT WAY. You'd think K would see a big red flag about him but no. I honestly think K would go out with anyone whose asian and fobby. I'm the type to cherish friends more so just the thought of going out with your friends ex when you know he caused her pain just irks me tbh.
We'll anyway ... just wanted to let that out , I feel kind of relieved that I've never had guy problems like this ...
On to the next drama llama!
For those of you who follow me on twitter, you may remember me bitching about someone I know posting a blackface on facebook. We'll it was my best friend who went to korea recently.
The first couple of comments were in korean. lots ok ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ(goddamn those get on my nerves sometimes)
I ruined the party and said "Hey don't do that anymore, thats a blackface" I also provided the wiki link to the blackface article. A bunch of other people comment with "LOL" and other comments indicating they were laughing.Only one person commented "racist" , oh but remember this comment hohoho.
I them exploded, here's a copy paste of the next comment i made
"If you find this funny , then you must also find people pulling their eyes and saying "CHING CHANG CHONG" to be hilarious too right!!??
so much hate right now, I can't fucking believe this."
Then some random fucks came in and were like , oh wait, I don't think that was intended to be like that , looks like a facial mask and shit.Other people went, "Why would he be racist all of a sudden"
YOUR MISSING THE POINT , I NEVER CALLED HIM RACIST, I CALLED YOU LAUGHING AT THE PICTURE RACIST.
I never said that but thats what i meant , and they weren't getting it.
I gave them a little history lesson on it and provided an article about the famous BEAST fiasco.
The same chick who was the only one who said "racist" , THEN TURNED ON ME AND CALLED ME A DRAMAQUEEN, she even said how everyone laughs at racist things and how this was funny , I was like "OMG STOP , BLACKFACE IS NEVER FUNNY" , i just checked , and she deleted her comment , dumb bitch.
The only resonable one then explained to me that it was only funny because there is "mud" on his face. OH THANK YOU , THATS SO FUNNY, I SHOULD BE CHOKING ON MY LAUGHTER RIGHT NOW.
My bestfriend never even explained to me whether it was a facial mask or not , not that I care.
Those people who were against me on that picture aren't even his friends which shocks me. He probably doesn't even remember their faces tbh.
Oh and the thing that saddened me the most , was they were all asian, not saying that asians are racist but I would have felt better if at least one agreed with me.
Well, there was one other HARDCORE korean friend who liked my initial comment , that made me smile, at least we still have hope in this world.
Maybe I did jump the gun ... but oh well , They got a history lesson they didn't want I guess.
oh heres the pic , I blocked his eyes ^^
You really can't tell a whether something is a blackface or not anymore ...
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Now some random lulz
I was talking to the same dude up there, He's actually really nice and is just a camerawhore , just posting pics of everthing so please don't think he's racist or anything haha.
He actually keeps telling me how he wants to be black and he's on these black dance teams and everything ^^ , He's a really great friend.
So yeah i was talking to him on skype and then he randomly went
"Laila~~~ , Don't come to korea for a guy , everyone is ugly! Those are just idols, don't believe them hahaha"
I loled but then yelled back , "DON'T SAY THAT , i WILL TAKE THEM TO THAILAND OR SINGAPORE AND GIVE THEM CHEAP GOOD PLASTIC SURGERY!!!" lol
He actually hates Korea, he recently moved back there from Cali.
He also stated how he went to a gay bar and there was like no one there or something.
I doubt there was a sign that says "COME HERE , ITS A GAY BAR" but there are probably secret places they can hang out and hook up , like he told me before , "we like hide"
He's such a sassy bitch ilh.
While he ways whinning to me about how he hates Korea , he mention something funny , he was like
"I HATE THE SUBWAYS, THERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE AND IT SMELLS LIKE KIMCHI !!!"
omgggggggh hahahaha
I wish I can remember more from out convo , ah but I'll guess that'll have to wait till next time ^^ ,
Well , if you got thru ALLL that , then congrats and thank you for reading ^^
oh btw, there are two people who use this livejournal account , me (Laila) and the original owner (Shauna) , I am the one who comments in communities , journals , and Private Messages.Shauna usually just pops in and posts a Journal or two , Like the fanfictions. The only Journals I've ever made was the DBSK SPAM one, the Hello one ,and this one , I'll start mine off from now on with "Laila Here!"
Hope that doesn't bother you but this was the only way Omona would have accepted my poor soul ^^
So um , I don't make journal entries that often but I guess I have some thing to let out that I can't tell any of my irl friends so I'll just let it all out on here. Is not a sob story just a drama llama , wtf story . heh.
So first things first. If someone forces you to give them a blowjob , is that still considered rape? I'm wondering because it happened to my friend. Her ex-boyfriend forced her to and she just told me now :[ (lets call her E). Its good that she broke up with him now and is with the guy of her dreams but here the problem , He's found a way back into her life. The worse part is ... He's dating our other friend (lets call her K). Yeah , so the asshole douchebag guy is dating our other friend who KNEW about the blowjob before. She also knew how E felt after it , E felt dirty and fell into depression. It was her first time she had any sexual relation with another guy so it was a big shock to her I guess. So now , K says she's madly in love with this douchebag and E feels sort of betrayed and disappointed. The asshole even told E that he wouldn't get a girlfriend for a year if she broke up with him. He lied and now is friending all her friends and making her feel paranoid. Oh , want to know the best part, He asked them out , THE SAME EXACT WAY. You'd think K would see a big red flag about him but no. I honestly think K would go out with anyone whose asian and fobby. I'm the type to cherish friends more so just the thought of going out with your friends ex when you know he caused her pain just irks me tbh.
We'll anyway ... just wanted to let that out , I feel kind of relieved that I've never had guy problems like this ...
On to the next drama llama!
For those of you who follow me on twitter, you may remember me bitching about someone I know posting a blackface on facebook. We'll it was my best friend who went to korea recently.
The first couple of comments were in korean. lots ok ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ(goddamn those get on my nerves sometimes)
I ruined the party and said "Hey don't do that anymore, thats a blackface" I also provided the wiki link to the blackface article. A bunch of other people comment with "LOL" and other comments indicating they were laughing.Only one person commented "racist" , oh but remember this comment hohoho.
I them exploded, here's a copy paste of the next comment i made
"If you find this funny , then you must also find people pulling their eyes and saying "CHING CHANG CHONG" to be hilarious too right!!??
so much hate right now, I can't fucking believe this."
Then some random fucks came in and were like , oh wait, I don't think that was intended to be like that , looks like a facial mask and shit.Other people went, "Why would he be racist all of a sudden"
YOUR MISSING THE POINT , I NEVER CALLED HIM RACIST, I CALLED YOU LAUGHING AT THE PICTURE RACIST.
I never said that but thats what i meant , and they weren't getting it.
I gave them a little history lesson on it and provided an article about the famous BEAST fiasco.
The same chick who was the only one who said "racist" , THEN TURNED ON ME AND CALLED ME A DRAMAQUEEN, she even said how everyone laughs at racist things and how this was funny , I was like "OMG STOP , BLACKFACE IS NEVER FUNNY" , i just checked , and she deleted her comment , dumb bitch.
The only resonable one then explained to me that it was only funny because there is "mud" on his face. OH THANK YOU , THATS SO FUNNY, I SHOULD BE CHOKING ON MY LAUGHTER RIGHT NOW.
My bestfriend never even explained to me whether it was a facial mask or not , not that I care.
Those people who were against me on that picture aren't even his friends which shocks me. He probably doesn't even remember their faces tbh.
Oh and the thing that saddened me the most , was they were all asian, not saying that asians are racist but I would have felt better if at least one agreed with me.
Well, there was one other HARDCORE korean friend who liked my initial comment , that made me smile, at least we still have hope in this world.
Maybe I did jump the gun ... but oh well , They got a history lesson they didn't want I guess.
oh heres the pic , I blocked his eyes ^^
You really can't tell a whether something is a blackface or not anymore ...
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Now some random lulz
I was talking to the same dude up there, He's actually really nice and is just a camerawhore , just posting pics of everthing so please don't think he's racist or anything haha.
He actually keeps telling me how he wants to be black and he's on these black dance teams and everything ^^ , He's a really great friend.
So yeah i was talking to him on skype and then he randomly went
"Laila~~~ , Don't come to korea for a guy , everyone is ugly! Those are just idols, don't believe them hahaha"
I loled but then yelled back , "DON'T SAY THAT , i WILL TAKE THEM TO THAILAND OR SINGAPORE AND GIVE THEM CHEAP GOOD PLASTIC SURGERY!!!" lol
He actually hates Korea, he recently moved back there from Cali.
He also stated how he went to a gay bar and there was like no one there or something.
I doubt there was a sign that says "COME HERE , ITS A GAY BAR" but there are probably secret places they can hang out and hook up , like he told me before , "we like hide"
He's such a sassy bitch ilh.
While he ways whinning to me about how he hates Korea , he mention something funny , he was like
"I HATE THE SUBWAYS, THERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE AND IT SMELLS LIKE KIMCHI !!!"
omgggggggh hahahaha
I wish I can remember more from out convo , ah but I'll guess that'll have to wait till next time ^^ ,
Well , if you got thru ALLL that , then congrats and thank you for reading ^^
oh btw, there are two people who use this livejournal account , me (Laila) and the original owner (Shauna) , I am the one who comments in communities , journals , and Private Messages.Shauna usually just pops in and posts a Journal or two , Like the fanfictions. The only Journals I've ever made was the DBSK SPAM one, the Hello one ,and this one , I'll start mine off from now on with "Laila Here!"
Hope that doesn't bother you but this was the only way Omona would have accepted my poor soul ^^