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Men get on MY LAST NERVE sometimes. Why is it so hard for you all (yes, I'm going to generalize right now) to just let us know what you want. The current situation I'm in is one that is not uncommon. We've been talking for a little over a month, but this child can't seem to make up his mind as to what he wants. At this point in my life, I'm not leaning one way or the other, I just want to know what's going on. Anyhow, we got in an argument about how he feels that he does all he can to see me and please me, but when it's time for me to do the same, I don't put any effort into it. (His point of view.) I, on the other hand, believe that we are both putting effort into seeing and pleasing each other, however, I'll be honest, I just don't know how much effort either of us are putting into it. This is really the root of the problem. If I knew that he wanted a serious relationship, I would be willing to put more effort into "us", but since right now it seems that we are only friends, I don't feel the need to go way over the line on trying to see him. He seems to think that no matter what our "relationship" "label" or whatever you want to call it, I should do ALL in my power to spend time with him. Easier said than done. For various reasons beyond my control, it's simply not that easy. I can't just up and leave to go see him, nor can I just put ALL my time into him. I THOUGHT he understood that, but I guess I was wrong.
Anyhow, if anyone has anything to say about this, (I know I didn't give much detail, but I think you can understand what I'm trying to say) I'd like to "hear" it. Thanks
---4ever_wondering
Anyhow, if anyone has anything to say about this, (I know I didn't give much detail, but I think you can understand what I'm trying to say) I'd like to "hear" it. Thanks
---4ever_wondering