Nov 08, 2011 23:35
I can't post this on Facebook, can't say anything on Twitter.
But I need to express that I'm dying for artistic nudes of strong, confident women (including myself) but if I dare post this anywhere else, or tell anyone, the men I know will make it disgustingly sexual and the women will either make it sound like a great idea they won't actually participate in or twist my words from "artistic nudes" to "I wanna make women look like sluts."
Its not fair though, can't I as a woman with real curves be happy about it? Besides, if I don't show the world what a true women looks like, everyone will believe these stupid lies from magazines that a woman is the equivalent to a twig,possibly one with balloons caught around it.
But that's not everyone. That's only a few women. And unless they have personality, they are women men should not pursue. Because she was most likely photo-shopped, or isn't healthy enough to have a real relationship.
Real women are those beautiful creatures that don't think they are as gorgeous as they are because of those twig-like 2-dimensional fictional females. Real women are completely natural and seem ashamed that their breasts aren't flawlessly perky or her butt doesn't have the exact curve of a Barbie doll.
A real woman needs to believe in herself. Like when she listens to that one song that makes her dance, no matter where she is. Like when she puts on that one article of clothing she knows looks perfect on her and for a few shining moments she walks with swagger. Like when she doesn't care what her body type is, she's going to dance in her underwear to Kelly Clarkson and Beyonce and Lady Gaga and think she is the hottest chick on the planet, and almost can't stop staring at herself because, c'mon, she's the hottest chick on the planet.
The point is, no matter what, women are beautiful. Why do you think people have painted more nudes of women then men? You can't even argue that those artists were mostly men, because plenty of women painted nude women too.
Because we're beautiful!
So, to any female out their, any that happen across this, know you're gorgeous. Stunning. Beautiful. And I'm probably not the first to have said this to you.