an email i got

Oct 17, 2005 14:43

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want
you, nothing can make him stay.

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

4. Stop trying to change yourselves for relationships that's not meant
to be.

5. Slower is better

6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly
happy.

7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve, then, you can't be friends. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend
tell it like it is!

8. Don't settle.

9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better. "You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

12. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he
treat you any differently?

13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers
you, speak up.

15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

16. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within God
alone can change people.

17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even
if he has more education or in a better job.

18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing
more nothing less -Tell da truth!

19. Never let a man define who you are.

20. Never borrow someone else's man.

21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

22.A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

23. All men are NOT dogs.

24. You should not be the one doing all the bending compromise is a two
way street.

25. You need time to heal between relationships...there is
nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a
new relationship. " Don't open another door without closing the other!"

26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a
relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complementary...not supplementary.

27. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

28. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.

29. Never move into his mother's house.

30. Never co-sign for a man.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire life to forget them.
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