This is in response to your latest journal entry, not the bikini one :p By the way I LOVE LOVE LOVE your livejournal website. effing awesome.
So yeah, well I read your opinion about sex, I almost wish I didn't because I myself beleive in celibacy, and your entry made some really excellent points, like being a horny virgin( which I am) But let me make some of my own, for your sake. Having sex changes everything wheteher you like it or not. And let me tell you, guys will respect you SO much more if you tell them you beleive in celibacy. In fact I've found it to be a turn on for most guys I tell. I know thats weird, but think about it: From your entry its obvious taht marrying someone you truly love it important to you. Isn't it better to be pure for them? I mean you've got the rest of your life to have sex anyway right? Then again it could be an unhappy thing towards the end of your life to think they are the only person you've slept with. But if you TRULY love the person it should be an incredibly special thing too. I don't know, its all how you look at it. The girls I know that have had sex tell me that when its time to get married the good guys look for the good girls, and although they don't regret having sex, at the same time they wish they could go back to being pure, so that the good guys will fall for them. That is kind of stupid, I know. I don't know, me personally, would rather get her hyman broken by my husband, or the one person I will love forever. Isn't that better than getting your virginity taken away in a relationship that has every chance of ending, or even worse, a one-night stand? I'm sure you are not into those, but sometimes those things come like that unexpectadly. Well anyway, I don't even know you, but from reading your entry I hope you just stay cautious of who you decide to " give it up" to. I hope this possibly may of swayed your decision. If not its cool, I totally respect your opinion, but again just be careful. ttyl. :)
you made some good points. thanks for giving me your opinion but not being mean or forceful with it. i appreciate that a lot. i was afraid people would comment and talk a bunch of shit but you made sense and you were nice. thank you :D
i agree with you on some points but i don't think i am swayed. i used to want to wait until i was married but i don't think i will, but i will wait until it's someone special :)
So yeah, well I read your opinion about sex, I almost wish I didn't because I myself beleive in celibacy, and your entry made some really excellent points, like being a horny virgin( which I am) But let me make some of my own, for your sake. Having sex changes everything wheteher you like it or not. And let me tell you, guys will respect you SO much more if you tell them you beleive in celibacy. In fact I've found it to be a turn on for most guys I tell. I know thats weird, but think about it: From your entry its obvious taht marrying someone you truly love it important to you. Isn't it better to be pure for them? I mean you've got the rest of your life to have sex anyway right? Then again it could be an unhappy thing towards the end of your life to think they are the only person you've slept with. But if you TRULY love the person it should be an incredibly special thing too. I don't know, its all how you look at it. The girls I know that have had sex tell me that when its time to get married the good guys look for the good girls, and although they don't regret having sex, at the same time they wish they could go back to being pure, so that the good guys will fall for them. That is kind of stupid, I know. I don't know, me personally, would rather get her hyman broken by my husband, or the one person I will love forever. Isn't that better than getting your virginity taken away in a relationship that has every chance of ending, or even worse, a one-night stand? I'm sure you are not into those, but sometimes those things come like that unexpectadly. Well anyway, I don't even know you, but from reading your entry I hope you just stay cautious of who you decide to " give it up" to. I hope this possibly may of swayed your decision. If not its cool, I totally respect your opinion, but again just be careful. ttyl. :)
-Greta
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you made some good points. thanks for giving me your opinion but not being mean or forceful with it. i appreciate that a lot. i was afraid people would comment and talk a bunch of shit but you made sense and you were nice. thank you :D
i agree with you on some points but i don't think i am swayed. i used to want to wait until i was married but i don't think i will, but i will wait until it's someone special :)
thanks for your comment<33
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