Mar 19, 2009 12:35
some people at a recent bdsm gathering I was teaching at were bothered that I teach one of my classes naked. WHATTT? LOLOL SHEEEESH. I know some BDSMers have an issue with swingers but sheeesh I didnt realize that nudists were on the no no list too. LOL I dont even know WHAT to say to that! If ya cant handle nudity.. let alone have even a tiny idea of why I might teach objectification like that.. ya certainly are not gonna be able to grasp the ideas of "opening", "display", and "awakening" that being put in the mindset of being used as an object can facilitate. I guess I thought it was a given so I did not explain it. I teach that class naked because I am demonstrating one way that women are often objectified.. sex object.. naked female form on display.. open and vulnerable with nothing to hide behind. I suppose it is strange for people that I am a submissive and am in a level of submissive space when I teach. In actuality teaching to me is entirely submissive because I am not that comfortable with it. I do it as an act of service and because most people with my type of kink... humiliation, degradation, and objectification... for a long time did not have a voice in our community.. although it has become a lot more common since when I first started doing classes on these subjects years ago. I suppose if it isnt your kink you wouldnt get the rest of what I am about anyways. I can see that some of the extreme stuff I do is hard for some people to wrap their heads around... but.. come on.. teaching NAKED?? I am thinking that R word here big time. LOL People are funny.