THEORIES, by Lauren Smith
I'm havin a good day. I made cookies today! Well I don't know why I sounded so down in the last entry. I'm a geek, what can I say. When I say deep stuff, I look back at it and think of how stupid I was, usually this takes a long time for me to see, this took a week or two. Guys mean nothing to me. Why did I ever stress over one?
Anyways, I have decided that I want to use this livejournal as sort of a means of expressing some of the whack theories I have about certain topics pertaining to high school and people and all sorts of stuff, so every now and then, you may see some crazy crap on here.
---And my first theory that I'd like to present is my theory ( well it doesn't really have a name)... that little girls don't need to make up BIG problems for themselves. Basically, the way I see it is: You make up the drama yourself. Then you surround yourself with other people ("drama seekers") who enjoy getting caught up in the same drama and "problems" that you create and share with them. It's an endless cycle of "little girl cliques" that are completely fake, with the entire package: fake feelings, fake actions, fake friends, fake confidence, fake personalities, and fake everything. This is why you make up the fake drama. Because you are caught up in it. You want people to like you, you want people to think you're cool. You want to be accepted. You even want to have that "image", whether it be the bad girl image, the ditz, the... whatever it may be... And when high school's all over, you'll have nothing, so enjoy it while it lasts. Because in reality, no one likes a fake person. No one likes a follower. There comes a point where you need to break free from your immature friends, and decide to go somewhere in life. People in the real world like friendly, outgoing people who are hard working, not lazy, and have goals for their life, and who are sensible, and mature and responsible. Don't create your own drama. REAL people don't like it.
---By the way, this isn't directed towards anyone in particular, but just about 80% of us high schoolers. The rest of you understand.
Anywhoo... more to come later, gotta get ready for work, 3-10. woo!
Anyways, I have decided that I want to use this livejournal as sort of a means of expressing some of the whack theories I have about certain topics pertaining to high school and people and all sorts of stuff, so every now and then, you may see some crazy crap on here.
---And my first theory that I'd like to present is my theory ( well it doesn't really have a name)... that little girls don't need to make up BIG problems for themselves. Basically, the way I see it is: You make up the drama yourself. Then you surround yourself with other people ("drama seekers") who enjoy getting caught up in the same drama and "problems" that you create and share with them. It's an endless cycle of "little girl cliques" that are completely fake, with the entire package: fake feelings, fake actions, fake friends, fake confidence, fake personalities, and fake everything. This is why you make up the fake drama. Because you are caught up in it. You want people to like you, you want people to think you're cool. You want to be accepted. You even want to have that "image", whether it be the bad girl image, the ditz, the... whatever it may be... And when high school's all over, you'll have nothing, so enjoy it while it lasts. Because in reality, no one likes a fake person. No one likes a follower. There comes a point where you need to break free from your immature friends, and decide to go somewhere in life. People in the real world like friendly, outgoing people who are hard working, not lazy, and have goals for their life, and who are sensible, and mature and responsible. Don't create your own drama. REAL people don't like it.
---By the way, this isn't directed towards anyone in particular, but just about 80% of us high schoolers. The rest of you understand.
Anywhoo... more to come later, gotta get ready for work, 3-10. woo!