Shhh ... this will be our little secret.
Many months back, someone at my gym was announcing into his cellphone he had taken a girl home last night and had been regrettably modest with her. His public service messages didn't seem to have bothered anyone around him, because no one had proclaimed aloud they were offended.
That got me thinking: If that guy wasn't a jock but some tiny Asian person, would people have been so polite? I got my answer today: May be not. More at
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