update
so i talked to adam in iraq today and told him that next month wouldnt be the best time for him to come as me and adam are trying to work things out with getting cars on the road. i also didnt really want him to come as adam isnt really all that accepting of the other adams visit. so i was thinking about how this would also benefit me emotionally as i will be way less stressed. right now i just want to plan gabes b day and take it one day at a time and not have to worry about housing someone i have never met and shit like that. it was nerve wrecking.