Flirting
I realized something during a dream this morning.
I absolutely despise meeting guys in public because they flirt. I hate flirting... I feel like I'm 12 years old when I'm being flirted with. Seriously.
Maybe its because so few guys who do so, do it with a purpose of actually trying to "catch" me. More often than not, it's just as a joke to make people laugh at my embarrassment. No, this isn't my low self-esteem talking. It's my past experience with the whole thing.
For future reference, guys... you'll have much better luck getting past my fences by actually treating me as a person and talking to me one on one. Lines and wolf-whistles just make me call in reinforcements for the guard. I internally shut-down.
I absolutely despise meeting guys in public because they flirt. I hate flirting... I feel like I'm 12 years old when I'm being flirted with. Seriously.
Maybe its because so few guys who do so, do it with a purpose of actually trying to "catch" me. More often than not, it's just as a joke to make people laugh at my embarrassment. No, this isn't my low self-esteem talking. It's my past experience with the whole thing.
For future reference, guys... you'll have much better luck getting past my fences by actually treating me as a person and talking to me one on one. Lines and wolf-whistles just make me call in reinforcements for the guard. I internally shut-down.