In need of some advice...
So I wrote in here all about my roommate last semester and how she had serious issues. This came to the point where I thought it was best to get my own place and we are no longer roommates. Now, this semester, it's been very interesting with her thus far.
We started off the semester kind of tense... not really talking for about a week or so. Then I guess we both decided to start letting it go since our class is not that big and it's difficult to be mad at people and have to avoid them. I was about 80% of the way in terms of forgetting what had happened... and this girl was being pretty nice too (if anything, OVERLY nice and sugarcoated). Now last week... I had a rough time. My taya died right after exams (I am still extremely worried about my dad), I got sick... etc etc.
During this time, my ex-roommate:
1.) asked me to go to a movie with a group of friends (I declined because I was still pretty depressed about my taya's death and the situation at home, plus the exhaustion from exams)
2.) asked me to go to shopping in Oxford Circus in the middle of the week (I declined because I had school the next day and wasn't feeling well and was already pretty tired)
3.) asked me to to go Birmingham to see Russel Peters over the weekend (I declined because it was about 60 pounds, and I didn't think it was appropriate to go during Ramadan)
On sunday, I went to Edgware Road with a couple friends to study and have dinner for a change of environment... my ex-roommate found out about this (she was still in Birmingham, so I didn't even think to ask her...) and she flips out. She has been pretty much ignoring me so far this week and acting like a total bitch in general. The only proof I have that her irritation is directed at ME is her MSN status:
1.)"Fake assholes... when I ask you two cum out, you always studyin, but when I'm gone your all over London...stop fakin!!" ... something like that, but you get the gist...
(after she was confronted about this by a friend, and she FLAT OUT denied it was about us... it was modified to read):
2.) "Fake assholes...when I ask you to cum out, u too busy 4 me!!!"
Now... if she were a good friend... I would understand her irritation... but does she honestly think I can easily forget the sheer HELL she gave me last semester?? :o/... SHE alienates me, then SHE decides to be chummy and now SHE is deciding to be a bitch all over again for no particular reason. I don't understand why she thinks it's ok to take out her mood swings on ME... especially since I moved out of her building and I'm not really her good friend any more.
Now I have 3 options:
What to do??
PS: I realize that I am in medical school and I shouldn't have to deal with catering to a 2 year old... but honestly... I have to see this girl every day and she still thinks we're in grade school!!
We started off the semester kind of tense... not really talking for about a week or so. Then I guess we both decided to start letting it go since our class is not that big and it's difficult to be mad at people and have to avoid them. I was about 80% of the way in terms of forgetting what had happened... and this girl was being pretty nice too (if anything, OVERLY nice and sugarcoated). Now last week... I had a rough time. My taya died right after exams (I am still extremely worried about my dad), I got sick... etc etc.
During this time, my ex-roommate:
1.) asked me to go to a movie with a group of friends (I declined because I was still pretty depressed about my taya's death and the situation at home, plus the exhaustion from exams)
2.) asked me to go to shopping in Oxford Circus in the middle of the week (I declined because I had school the next day and wasn't feeling well and was already pretty tired)
3.) asked me to to go Birmingham to see Russel Peters over the weekend (I declined because it was about 60 pounds, and I didn't think it was appropriate to go during Ramadan)
On sunday, I went to Edgware Road with a couple friends to study and have dinner for a change of environment... my ex-roommate found out about this (she was still in Birmingham, so I didn't even think to ask her...) and she flips out. She has been pretty much ignoring me so far this week and acting like a total bitch in general. The only proof I have that her irritation is directed at ME is her MSN status:
1.)"Fake assholes... when I ask you two cum out, you always studyin, but when I'm gone your all over London...stop fakin!!" ... something like that, but you get the gist...
(after she was confronted about this by a friend, and she FLAT OUT denied it was about us... it was modified to read):
2.) "Fake assholes...when I ask you to cum out, u too busy 4 me!!!"
Now... if she were a good friend... I would understand her irritation... but does she honestly think I can easily forget the sheer HELL she gave me last semester?? :o/... SHE alienates me, then SHE decides to be chummy and now SHE is deciding to be a bitch all over again for no particular reason. I don't understand why she thinks it's ok to take out her mood swings on ME... especially since I moved out of her building and I'm not really her good friend any more.
Now I have 3 options:
- Confront her AGAIN! Because it's bothering the hell out of me and I don't know what she is telling other people about me... I am sitting here glaring at the back of her head...
- Ignore it and move on with my life because it's never going to end with her, apparently. --> this is what I am currently doing
- Ignore the SITUATION, accept that she is clearly BIPOLAR and has severe social and emotional problems, and forgive her.
What to do??
PS: I realize that I am in medical school and I shouldn't have to deal with catering to a 2 year old... but honestly... I have to see this girl every day and she still thinks we're in grade school!!