So what's the deal?

[2dogsnme]

I'm not bad-looking by most people's standards, I reckon. I mean, I'm no Megan Fox, but I would consider myself above average-looking right. I mean I'm some lame-ass pageant finalist and 1st runner-up (as lame-ass as it is) and that must mean something, I'm hoping

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[ruien]

i sincerely believe it's because the "connections" you make aren't so much connections as a nurturing maternal instinct. That because you're such an amazing person, when you meet a loser who by all accounts should be less of a loser than he is, you feel an almost obsessive need to "fix" them, which you mistake as true romantic love.

on the other hand, if you weren't so sweet and good, you'd probably just look at these people and their scabbed over imperfections and run a mile or ten.

[2dogsnme]

Bingo. Exactly. And if friends know I have this obsessive fix it machine, why do they keep introducing people for me to fix??? o.O

[ruien]

notice how I don't =p

[allycat79]

There was a time where my guy & I did ask the same questions u r asking now. There's really no answer to how to meet the one cos it's a combination of so many factors,timing & circumstances. My story here is strange & amazing itself. If I wasn't out of job & out of love, I wouldn't have looked past my guy's financial status & get to see the teddy bear in him.

My advice is just to be patient, gain wisdom(intelligence is inherited but wisdom is not) , have the right values & simply chill.

You aren't really that OLD, u know?

[anonymous]

Why do you need to be attached anyways? You could be merrily going around, doing your thing and then bump into a great fellow, without even expecting to.

Those are the best romances?

[2dogsnme]

I don't. In fact, I have been unattached for a year, and I only startd crawling out of my shell a month back. But the prospects - Ey yii yii!

I'm honestly just as fine being single as I am attached. But what I'm wondering is... how come the guys I date are morons? o.O

[anonymous]

What a contradiction!