Apr 09, 2004 14:26
What are we doing to ourselves why do we try so hard to make our lives perfect? When the most perfection that I have ever experienced was when I was totally surrendered to God. We need to relax let life lead us. I was reading a few of these live journals from people out there (this is my first experience with this) Come on people! We are so stressed. Especially when it comes to relationships, we kill ourselves and each other I know I am guilty of this myself. This should be one of the simple things in life. Trying to find love is like trying to find that perfect chocolate yes I said that no I'm not quoting Forest Gump! Instead of taking time to observe what is inside we just grad one that looks good and bit into it and if it is not the right one we just toss it back. We have all done this and it has happened to all of us. A soul can only take a few of these bites before totally breaking down. So why do we do it? For the ones out there that feel love is imposable that may be true but only if you don't realize that it does happen and at the oddest moments. Being a female I have had my share of heartbreaks I have been abused over and over again, I have been engaged to be married a love that was not true, not meant to be, a love that was not fully thought out. Don't settle because you think there isn't anything better because there always is. There is that perfect person out there waiting to love you, fighting for you, praying for you. A person that will share your hopes and dreams. Remember love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, and is not proud. Love is not rude, it is not selfish, and does not get upset with others. This is your life. Be yourself don't ever change to be liked by someone, for you will never like yourself or be totally happy. God loves you and has someone perfect waiting for you, wait for them. And I promise you will find them.