Romantically Challenged

[1trinagirl]

So, I guess I have a sort of "little club".  I have several friends (both men and women) that are out in the dating scene along with me..................and we are just confused.  I mean it is tough to understand this whole dating/relationship phenomenon.  You get out there in the mix and you find that there are some great people.........and some

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[anonymous]

Hey Trina - love your blog! If real estate doesn’t work out, maybe you should consider becoming a writer. ;-)

My heart goes out to you and the other members of the “Romantically Challenged Club.” If you ever decide to franchise out, sign me up to head the local chapter. ;-) Yeah, it’s rough, but in the long run it’s worth it to find what we’re all looking for. As for whether falling in love is easy--well, I suppose it is if you’ve found a truly unique and wonderful person, one that’s right for you, but getting to that point of certainty should require a little effort. It should be fun, exciting, even exhilarating, but also time-consuming and thought- and emotion-intensive. I say, don’t consider yourself truly in love--I mean, the I-know-I-want-to-spend-the-rest-of-my-life-with-you kind of love--until you and your partner have seen each other at your best, your worst, and all shades in between, over an extended period of time. Until you can say you know each other inside out. And, especially, until you’re sure you’re on the same page regarding such things as marriage, children, and lifestyle in general.

Just my two cents. ;-)

-- Nick

[1trinagirl]

Sure Nick! New members (or entire franchises) are welcome! Also, thanks for the sweet words about the blog.

Yes, you are right about spending the time and learning about each other in all aspects......it is so important. I have been a serial long term relationship girl my entire life. So, I guess for right now, I am learning about the variety that is the dating pool. Believe me though, I do exactly what you say and take the time to learn about people. It seems in today's world that people have so many layers to unfold in discovering the true being.

Thanks for the awesome comment!!

[anonymous]

Thanks for responding, Trina -- sounds like you have a very healthy approach to relationships. I’m sure this will pay off for you eventually.

Here’s a quick example of why I appreciate your blog: In one entry, you talk about how your Mawmaw, though deaf, went on to become a music teacher. When I read this, I was blown away. Four years ago I lost the hearing in my right ear, and also developed tinnitus (i.e., noise that never stops). I’m also musically inclined, and it was disheartening to say the least. Your story about Mawmaw reminded me that others have even greater challenges, and that we don’t have to let such things limit us if we’re determined. I know she’s an inspiration to you, and by sharing her story it inspires me and, I’m sure, others.

So, blessings to you and your wonderful family, and thanks for sharing!

Nick
Nick8004@aol.com

WOW!

[1trinagirl]

Yes, my Mawmaw is more than AWESOME......it is such an inspirational story....and since I was a special needs teacher for so many years.....it is a reminder to me what ANYONE (with disabilities or otherwise) can do with their lives.

Good luck with your music.......I am sure that you have many gifts!!!

Re: WOW!

[anonymous]

I do have other gifts; I have a lot to be grateful for. And I can still do music, it just doesn't sound quite the same in mono. ;-)

Thanks for your encouraging words.

Nick
Nick8004@aol.com