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[1ferritgurl]

i went through radiation, had my body scan, and was told i have nothing left to do, i am cancer free now

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[hypo_mechanic]

Glad to see you back and I'm so happy to hear you are cancer-free now!

Rest up and recover quickly!

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[1ferritgurl]

things have gotten REALLY good for the relationship part of my life.

i have a second boyfriend coming back into my life after a number of years. the only bad part of it is that he lives in San Jose still.

but were working on it.

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[hypo_mechanic]

Your husband lets you have a bf?

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[1ferritgurl]

yes, he was told i am Poly before we even had sex the first time.

he trusts that i know where home is, and who my primary partner is (him)

he has even shared in some of my other partners, since a few of them are female as well.

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[hypo_mechanic]

Cool.

My husband and I allow each other gfs. We've had some threesomes but haven't had any luck with a finding a gf with benefits type relationship.

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[1ferritgurl]

yeah, well, BF and i have begun to ponder a three way handfasting already, perhaps in the spring or summer.

we all know it will be difficult as long as he lives 350-ish miles away, but we can deal.