ON FRIENDSHIPS & ITS BENEFITS. 20 FEBRUARY 2014..

[13masquerade]

I have noticed that I have a lot of friends who does not even say hello or hi to me. Not once in my posts have they willingly given me a minute of their time. Friendship to me is two way street. You say hello or give a smile. You communicate and build that trust. You let yourself be known to someone you befriended until you reach a point where you don't even have to talk to each other but you know you are thought of. Simple net manners. Simple comrade. Simple buddy. But you have to let me know. You have to let me hear your voice in order to be able to talk to each other. No matter if your interests are not the same as mine, if we have been friends forever, we can still communicate. Yet I don't know anything about you. This is kind of one way ticket to hell! I am burned! If you are my friend, you will ease my pain and treat me if you can. Or you will send me *hope and love* like the way you treat real friends, real buddy, real comrade. I am real. I may be a million miles away from you but when we talk and chat or even just reading my journal, it's reality for me. I haven't hidden anything from you as you are given the privilege to know me. I share my thoughts with all those that are supposed to be my friends. I have given you a peek at my soul.

But you never give me a chance to peek back at yours. And it's really hurting. I did not notice it until my attention's been called to the fact, I should purge my friends list.

AND I WILL BE PURGING THOSE THAT CAN NOT GIVE ME A MINUTE OF THEIR TIME.

THANK YOU!

~MERELA~

P.S. I am not needy of your time and attention. I just want reciprocation. Now and again say "Hello" and talk to me. OTHERWISE YOU ARE GONE! AND THERE WILL BE COMMUNITIES I AM GOING TO DELETE TOO!