Update & New Listings
Click here to see my new listings. I have two seperate listings for Verizon LG phones complete with accessories. One comes with a Bluetooth and stuff. I also have a Nextel BlackBerry up too, brand new..movies, books, baby stuff, yeah..good stuff.
So, to elaborate on my post from the other day, I'm close to ending it with Christopher and/or telling him to get out of this house. All he does is stay up until 5:00 in the morning playing Poker. He had $600 in bonds given to him by his grandmother and he blew the majority of it on Poker! I couldn't believe it when I went to look at my accounts on Chase and found that his account was at .65 cents. I know I did a stupid thing by opening another checking account for him to use, so no one needs to tell me this. He's already over-drawn on it twice, pretty much in the same instance, and paid me back for the overdraft fee charged to my Chase Visa.
He tells me he wants me to stop treating him like a child, but he's ACTING like one! No one'll hire him except for temp agencies, and even filled out an application at Burger King out of desparation. He filled an application out there a long time ago and they never even called him for an interview. He can't keep a job. He's had probably 12 or 13 different jobs in the last six months alone. The last one he had through the temp agency, he worked for a day and they called to say they didn't want him back.
Before I opened the account at Chase, I told him that I wasn't going to and he gave me shit about how I didn't trust him, and I of course gave in because I felt guilty. He needed an account to put the $600 in because I didn't want him using my account again because of what happened last time (spent over $500 of his and my money on Poker). He owes another bank money because he over-drew, and he said that once he got a job he'd pay them off and open his own account. Why couldn't he use some of the $600 to pay off his debt? Because he didn't want to "waste his money on it". But he'd rather blow it all on Poker... He says he's not addicted to it, but he plays every night until about 5:00 in the morning, and sleeps all day.
In the meantime, my back's hurting like hell, I had an MRI done today, and he's sleeping right now. My mom's here to help today, but that isn't the point. CHRISTOPHER should be the one helping me.
I want to figure out a way to tell him I want him to leave without starting a fight. He doesn't pick up after himself, he leaves his crap lying around everywhere, eats at the computer and leaves his crumbs scattered about the floor, thinks my appointments (or Aeron's) should be re-scheduled most of the time because sometimes they get in the way of something he has to do.
The other day, he had a job interview at 9:00, and he slept right through it. I didn't bother to wake him up because I don't care anymore. If he doesn't care, I'm not going to, it's as simple as that.
Everyday I clean his dishes, pick up after him as well as Aeron, I do laundry everyday, run the errands, sell my crap on eBay to make money for the winter, and what does he do? He:
1. sleeps all day
2. plays Poker all night (or various PC/Xbox games)
3. leaves his nasty dishes lying around
4. throws his clothes everywhere
5. hardly showers (or eats) and has the nerve to talk to me about how to maintain my health
NOT to mention the fact that he doesn't listen to anyone when they ask him to do things, so we end up doing it FOR him because we don't want to look at his messes... He doesn't even listen to my mother who's been gracious enought to let him stay here WITHOUT asking him for money!
He came downstairs after Aeron woke up from his nap, and the first thing he said was, "What's this trash?" (Referring to A Walk To Remember which was on TV at the time.)
What the HELL does this sound like to you??? SOMEONE help me figure out WHAT he's doing, and what to say to him..PLEASE..
So, to elaborate on my post from the other day, I'm close to ending it with Christopher and/or telling him to get out of this house. All he does is stay up until 5:00 in the morning playing Poker. He had $600 in bonds given to him by his grandmother and he blew the majority of it on Poker! I couldn't believe it when I went to look at my accounts on Chase and found that his account was at .65 cents. I know I did a stupid thing by opening another checking account for him to use, so no one needs to tell me this. He's already over-drawn on it twice, pretty much in the same instance, and paid me back for the overdraft fee charged to my Chase Visa.
He tells me he wants me to stop treating him like a child, but he's ACTING like one! No one'll hire him except for temp agencies, and even filled out an application at Burger King out of desparation. He filled an application out there a long time ago and they never even called him for an interview. He can't keep a job. He's had probably 12 or 13 different jobs in the last six months alone. The last one he had through the temp agency, he worked for a day and they called to say they didn't want him back.
Before I opened the account at Chase, I told him that I wasn't going to and he gave me shit about how I didn't trust him, and I of course gave in because I felt guilty. He needed an account to put the $600 in because I didn't want him using my account again because of what happened last time (spent over $500 of his and my money on Poker). He owes another bank money because he over-drew, and he said that once he got a job he'd pay them off and open his own account. Why couldn't he use some of the $600 to pay off his debt? Because he didn't want to "waste his money on it". But he'd rather blow it all on Poker... He says he's not addicted to it, but he plays every night until about 5:00 in the morning, and sleeps all day.
In the meantime, my back's hurting like hell, I had an MRI done today, and he's sleeping right now. My mom's here to help today, but that isn't the point. CHRISTOPHER should be the one helping me.
I want to figure out a way to tell him I want him to leave without starting a fight. He doesn't pick up after himself, he leaves his crap lying around everywhere, eats at the computer and leaves his crumbs scattered about the floor, thinks my appointments (or Aeron's) should be re-scheduled most of the time because sometimes they get in the way of something he has to do.
The other day, he had a job interview at 9:00, and he slept right through it. I didn't bother to wake him up because I don't care anymore. If he doesn't care, I'm not going to, it's as simple as that.
Everyday I clean his dishes, pick up after him as well as Aeron, I do laundry everyday, run the errands, sell my crap on eBay to make money for the winter, and what does he do? He:
1. sleeps all day
2. plays Poker all night (or various PC/Xbox games)
3. leaves his nasty dishes lying around
4. throws his clothes everywhere
5. hardly showers (or eats) and has the nerve to talk to me about how to maintain my health
NOT to mention the fact that he doesn't listen to anyone when they ask him to do things, so we end up doing it FOR him because we don't want to look at his messes... He doesn't even listen to my mother who's been gracious enought to let him stay here WITHOUT asking him for money!
He came downstairs after Aeron woke up from his nap, and the first thing he said was, "What's this trash?" (Referring to A Walk To Remember which was on TV at the time.)
What the HELL does this sound like to you??? SOMEONE help me figure out WHAT he's doing, and what to say to him..PLEASE..