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I'm a 28 year old girl from Phoenix, Arizona. If it matters to you what I look like for some reason, I'm super pale, brown eyes, and reddish hair, 5'1 and a bit overweight (working on that!).
I'm single and perfectly fine with it. I enjoy doing my own thing and just having fun. I'm probably also a little too picky sometimes, and stubborn, but I won't just settle for whoever comes along. I know what I deserve and I'm not going to settle for anything less.
I live with my best friend and my 2 kitties Jigglypuff (aka Puffy) and Honey (aka Satan lol). My relationship with my family is interesting. We get along sometimes, but most of the time not so much. My parents are way too overprotective and tend to treat me like I'm still a little girl and want to believe that they can still control my life and tell me what to do. They don't agree with a lot of the decisions that I make which causes lots of unnecessary fights, stress and tension, so I try to just keep to myself as far as they are concerned. There have also been lots of things that have surfaced recently that have pretty much ruined all trust and respect that I had for them. It's a long story, but if you are interested feel free to ask.
I don't have very many friends anymore. I've been used and backstabbed more times than I would like to admit to. I've FINALLY learned my lesson and have eliminated those people from my life. I don't have the time or the energy to deal with people that only bring negativity. I now choose to surround myself only with people that make me feel loved and appreciated.
My best friend is Dan and he means the world to me, and I don't know where I'd be without him. We met right in the middle of what has been the darkest point in my life. He very easily could have dismissed me as a crazy person and never speak to me again, but for some reason he didn't. He's been my support, my strength, my sanity, and my voice of logic when I was weak, and for that I am beyond grateful.
I've been going to school off and on for the last 8 years and have yet to get a degree in anything. Nothing can seem to hold my interest long enough to finish it.
I have a full time job that I just recently started. I've been going through a job hopping stage also. Again, nothing is holding my interest.
I don't have any kids and don't plan on having any for a few more years. It may sound selfish to some but I want to be able to enjoy my life before settling down and having a family.
I'm over the partying and going out every night stage. It was fun, but now I usually prefer staying home with a friend and watching movies or just lounging around talking and being goofy.
I'm not religious AT ALL. I don't criticize or judge people for their beliefs though. I'll respect yours if you respect mine. Plain and simple.
I can be overly optimistic at times, which some people find annoying. I think it's pointless to sit around and stress over things that you can't control, so I try to make the best of it.
I am a firm believer in fate and that everything happens the way it does for a reason.
I hold myself to very high standards.
I procrastinate too much.
I'm random and get distracted way too easily.
I love to laugh.
I'm a daydreamer and often get lost in my own thoughts.
I often become too attached to people. I find someone that I am comfortable with and then cling to them like crazy. This has caused me problems with keeping friendships because I become too dependant and eventually end up pushing people away. I also have terrible abandonment issues. I'm trying to work on these things, but it's been difficult.
I am pretty much an open book, if you ask me a question I'll gladly answer it. I don't sugar coat things. I tell people the truth even if it's not what they want to hear because lying may help at the time but will always come back to bite you in the ass. That doesn't make me a bitch, it makes me honest.
That's me in a nutshell. If you think we would get along then add me, I love meeting new people. Just leave me a comment if you do or I most likely won't notice :)
I'm single and perfectly fine with it. I enjoy doing my own thing and just having fun. I'm probably also a little too picky sometimes, and stubborn, but I won't just settle for whoever comes along. I know what I deserve and I'm not going to settle for anything less.
I live with my best friend and my 2 kitties Jigglypuff (aka Puffy) and Honey (aka Satan lol). My relationship with my family is interesting. We get along sometimes, but most of the time not so much. My parents are way too overprotective and tend to treat me like I'm still a little girl and want to believe that they can still control my life and tell me what to do. They don't agree with a lot of the decisions that I make which causes lots of unnecessary fights, stress and tension, so I try to just keep to myself as far as they are concerned. There have also been lots of things that have surfaced recently that have pretty much ruined all trust and respect that I had for them. It's a long story, but if you are interested feel free to ask.
I don't have very many friends anymore. I've been used and backstabbed more times than I would like to admit to. I've FINALLY learned my lesson and have eliminated those people from my life. I don't have the time or the energy to deal with people that only bring negativity. I now choose to surround myself only with people that make me feel loved and appreciated.
My best friend is Dan and he means the world to me, and I don't know where I'd be without him. We met right in the middle of what has been the darkest point in my life. He very easily could have dismissed me as a crazy person and never speak to me again, but for some reason he didn't. He's been my support, my strength, my sanity, and my voice of logic when I was weak, and for that I am beyond grateful.
I've been going to school off and on for the last 8 years and have yet to get a degree in anything. Nothing can seem to hold my interest long enough to finish it.
I have a full time job that I just recently started. I've been going through a job hopping stage also. Again, nothing is holding my interest.
I don't have any kids and don't plan on having any for a few more years. It may sound selfish to some but I want to be able to enjoy my life before settling down and having a family.
I'm over the partying and going out every night stage. It was fun, but now I usually prefer staying home with a friend and watching movies or just lounging around talking and being goofy.
I'm not religious AT ALL. I don't criticize or judge people for their beliefs though. I'll respect yours if you respect mine. Plain and simple.
I can be overly optimistic at times, which some people find annoying. I think it's pointless to sit around and stress over things that you can't control, so I try to make the best of it.
I am a firm believer in fate and that everything happens the way it does for a reason.
I hold myself to very high standards.
I procrastinate too much.
I'm random and get distracted way too easily.
I love to laugh.
I'm a daydreamer and often get lost in my own thoughts.
I often become too attached to people. I find someone that I am comfortable with and then cling to them like crazy. This has caused me problems with keeping friendships because I become too dependant and eventually end up pushing people away. I also have terrible abandonment issues. I'm trying to work on these things, but it's been difficult.
I am pretty much an open book, if you ask me a question I'll gladly answer it. I don't sugar coat things. I tell people the truth even if it's not what they want to hear because lying may help at the time but will always come back to bite you in the ass. That doesn't make me a bitch, it makes me honest.
That's me in a nutshell. If you think we would get along then add me, I love meeting new people. Just leave me a comment if you do or I most likely won't notice :)