Posted a long time ago
Is it better to have loved and lost, or to not have loved at all?
Do you wait on something you love that may never happen, or take what loves you before you lose it also?
Is it always a lose/lose situation in love? Does anyone ever win?
Why does love happen when you aren't ready, but leave when you are?
Why can't you know who you love before they leave you, instead of not knowing until they are long gone?
Does love happen once, or twice?
Is it the real deal everytime love happens, or just some of the time?
How can someone love you for who you are when you really aren't much at all?
How can someone say they love you, but never talk to you or show you that they do care?
What do you tell someone you love that you love them?
If you say it wrong, will they leave because they are scared?
Or will they say they love you in return but because both loves are so deep that you both will be hurt and you should both go seperate ways?
Why does love do that?
Why does love hurt and confuse those who are wrapped up in it?
How do you even know if you are in love?
Is there something that you feel on the inside or is it something you do different opposed to a normal day?
If you do know, how do you prove to someone else that you do indeed love them more than your own life and air that you take in daily?
For everything listed...I wish I knew.
I wrote that a long time ago and I thought I would re-post it. Ive learned alot since I posted this the first time. I got some answers to some of those questions. For everyone out there who loves someone, tell them. All the time. It will never get old hearing it I promise. And PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, whatever you do, dont say it if you dont mean it. It took me so long to find my way back to loving someone because I was lied to and mentally brainwashed about it all. I hope no one ever goes through it. I found someone who made me realize that love is real and it comes in several forms. I met up with an old friend, Brandon, thinking of it as nothing more than my old friend. I was SO wrong. I fell so hard for him and he is so far away, on the otherside of the world non the less... but I dont care how far away he is. I want so much for things to work that I would do anything. He is all I think about 24/7. His name is always on my lips, I cant wait till I can talk to him again. I miss him all the time. I pray for him to be safe and come home to me. Every song I hear reminds me of him in some way, whether it be a line in the song or just the whole song. I cant wait till he comes home from Japan so that we can start a life together. It is going to be a struggle Im sure, because of all the distance issues, but Im willing to work on it and I know he is as well. Neither of us want out of this awesome thing that we share. I finally found what Ive been looking for in life.... and after everything in all the relationships Ive been through... Ive learned that you can be healed after being hurt. Even if the hurt is so bad that you feel like your life is over. Keep your head up because you may run into the love of your life. I hope everyone can find their Brandon like I did...
Do you wait on something you love that may never happen, or take what loves you before you lose it also?
Is it always a lose/lose situation in love? Does anyone ever win?
Why does love happen when you aren't ready, but leave when you are?
Why can't you know who you love before they leave you, instead of not knowing until they are long gone?
Does love happen once, or twice?
Is it the real deal everytime love happens, or just some of the time?
How can someone love you for who you are when you really aren't much at all?
How can someone say they love you, but never talk to you or show you that they do care?
What do you tell someone you love that you love them?
If you say it wrong, will they leave because they are scared?
Or will they say they love you in return but because both loves are so deep that you both will be hurt and you should both go seperate ways?
Why does love do that?
Why does love hurt and confuse those who are wrapped up in it?
How do you even know if you are in love?
Is there something that you feel on the inside or is it something you do different opposed to a normal day?
If you do know, how do you prove to someone else that you do indeed love them more than your own life and air that you take in daily?
For everything listed...I wish I knew.
I wrote that a long time ago and I thought I would re-post it. Ive learned alot since I posted this the first time. I got some answers to some of those questions. For everyone out there who loves someone, tell them. All the time. It will never get old hearing it I promise. And PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, whatever you do, dont say it if you dont mean it. It took me so long to find my way back to loving someone because I was lied to and mentally brainwashed about it all. I hope no one ever goes through it. I found someone who made me realize that love is real and it comes in several forms. I met up with an old friend, Brandon, thinking of it as nothing more than my old friend. I was SO wrong. I fell so hard for him and he is so far away, on the otherside of the world non the less... but I dont care how far away he is. I want so much for things to work that I would do anything. He is all I think about 24/7. His name is always on my lips, I cant wait till I can talk to him again. I miss him all the time. I pray for him to be safe and come home to me. Every song I hear reminds me of him in some way, whether it be a line in the song or just the whole song. I cant wait till he comes home from Japan so that we can start a life together. It is going to be a struggle Im sure, because of all the distance issues, but Im willing to work on it and I know he is as well. Neither of us want out of this awesome thing that we share. I finally found what Ive been looking for in life.... and after everything in all the relationships Ive been through... Ive learned that you can be healed after being hurt. Even if the hurt is so bad that you feel like your life is over. Keep your head up because you may run into the love of your life. I hope everyone can find their Brandon like I did...